I LIVE IN A TOWN THAT I MOVED TO WITH MY KIDS FATHER WE HAVENT BEEN TOGETHER FOR A YEAR N A HALF HE ISNT EVEN IN THE SAME TOWN AS ME ANYMORE N DOSNT COME AROUND IM NOT DROP DEAD BEATIFUL BUT I KNOW IM PRETTY I HAVE THE BEST EYES N HAIR N IM NOT FAT OR SKINNY I DONT HAVE MUCH FRIENDS I DONT DO MUCH I WORK 8 HR SHIFTS 3-4 TIMES A WEEK THE REST OF THE WEEK I STAY HOME WITH NOTHING TO DO BUT BE WITH MY BOYS HOW CAN I GET A GUY TO NOTICE ME N WANT TO AT LEAST BE FRIENDS n im sorry bout the caps
2006-09-02 07:00:32 · 10 answers · asked by kandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi, from what you wrote you live in your own world, for solid reasons though.I respect the fact that you have to take care of your boys,but if finding a meaningful relationship is important to you,you must find the time to socialize more.What use is it if you are beautiful and you do not give the world enough opportunity to see your beauty.I am sure if you go out more you will find the kind of guy you deserve.Cheers
2006-09-02 07:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by Alot-in-crisis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be active. Go out and do stuff. Join a gym. Go after work hours when the most men are there. Make eye contact with someone you spot checking you out. Eventually he will come over and say hello. If you get on a machine next to a man say hi, as if you already know him. After he sees you a few times he will be comfortable around you and perhaps will ask you out in the near future. Good Luck!
2006-09-02 14:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do in a small town is join all the local womens clubs, if they like you then they will hook you up. Wear nice clothes is always a good thing.
Also buy this book on body language, it will show you the way.
2006-09-02 14:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, kandy. the reason ur still single is tht- mayb ther's somethnig better waiting around the corner for you. u'd b seeing a lot of guys soon, u've jus moved in- giv urself some time gurl. loosen up.
and as far as guys noticing you- with the details u've mentioned, i dont think tht shud b difficult.
sometimes, life says "yes" n gives us wht we want.
soetimes it says"no" and gives us sometrhing better , and most times
it says "wait" and gives us the BEST.
2006-09-02 14:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by forevr.smiles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a easy remedy, Get a hobby, something that you like and indulge in it and you will be around people with your own likes and then it should take off by itself from there. Good luck.
2006-09-02 15:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no social life. Get the court to order dad to do visits and give you free time.
Go to the park sign, them up for sports.
2006-09-02 14:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you......... u probably have already been threw the bar scene.... u can't find a decent man there anyway !! I'm not a perv, & i'm single iso a gal that actually cares about me not material crap !!! if u are over 30 or more im me at silvershadow559@hotmail.com we can chat. swm 47yrs,old
2006-09-02 14:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right guy hasnt come around, i would say do your own thing and you will have a good man come around. you wouldnt want just anything to come around
2006-09-02 14:05:29 · answer #8 · answered by blue_green_at 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u have to go out and find them love nothing else to say or u can try ur luck on match.com
2006-09-02 14:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loneliness sucks. been there done that. Chat?
2006-09-02 14:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋