im a 17 year old iranian girl and im in love with a 17 year old american guy,yup,another long distance relationship,i love him and it seems like he loves me too,he is half asian and so he will move to here and i can move to US too,so distance isnt much important,he smees like anything that a girl wants,he is handsome,smart,kind and loveable,and he really is,he is one of thoes unloved rich kids,im so scared,maybe he just need some love and no matter from who.
please help me im so confused.
2006-09-02 06:54:42 · 5 answers · asked by jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need to worry much about it and about him and about you. You are still very young and so is he at 17.
Anyway, ask him directly if he really loves you and he is willing to marry you.. Then let him come to your place, introduce him to your parents. Build a house for your parents and for you.. Buy a farmland for your future, buy yourself a car so you can go anywhere in Iran.
Enjoy,,, and if he really loves you, he will give you everything.
Then ask him if he has a job... If he can go on supporting you and your family, on his own and not just because he is one of those rich kids... (And how sure are you)
Well, if everything will be alright then.. go ahead marry him there in your place..
And if he likes to bring you to US, go because he is your husband.. But bring along with you a maid, a sister or who ever in your family who can help you with house hold chores. Because in US it is most of the time to each his own.
2006-09-02 07:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that true love will win in the end. But with what is going on in Iran now it will be difficult. I think that you should go to him, but don't get your hopes up, these relationships on the net are not always what they seem, you could be on man on the Internet and another in real life. I'm not saying not go, by all means I'm just saying that he may not be exactly what you read about him.
2006-09-02 14:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Faust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 17. Dont go screwing your life up for some kid who claims to be rich. Hes peobably broker than the ten commandments.
2006-09-02 13:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by jamz2277 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends first. Love is important but must grow. Once your together forever then you can really love each other. See how good friendship can be first. Good luck.
2006-09-02 14:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just let it go. Sorry.
2006-09-02 13:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋