Okay, well I know everyone has an expectation on looks for their mate, friend, whatever. But I was wondering, why is that, what is the complex. In my situation, I guess I'm not up the guys phsyical standards, and he stopped talking to me even though we are or were only friends. Shallow... I'll leave that up to you to decide?
2006-09-02 06:54:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FIRST JUST like you ,there must be a physical attraction,you do like the cute boys...., then it matures to a love, and more then ...............physical,.....
2006-09-02 07:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by har 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm.... Tough call.
Well, first, we are ALL attracted to what we like, and that usually comes through our sense of sight initially.
Don't take my word for it. Look at the billions of dollars spent on model agencies, fashion, and advertisement a year.
But that's not necessarily a bad thing. Physical attractiveness does play an important role when choosing a partner. It was the primary indicator for health in a person. I mean, no one wants to date Gollum from Lord of the Rings.
But I could be wrong.
2006-09-02 13:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most of it has to do with how you feel about yourself. If inside you feel like you don't meet expectations, then you will give off an insecure vibe and that is way less attractive than how you look. People like to surround themselves with others that are happy with themselves. I know it can be hard, but always try to find something you like about your appearence. You will start feeling better about yourself, and pretty soon you will have a glow about you. Or as I like to call it, you kinda *sparkle* That's the confidence shining through!
2006-09-02 14:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because I make up for it with my other attributes. Standards today seem to get higher and higher. But, I'm not going to kill myself trying to prove anything. Because there will always be someone better looking or smarter than me but I accept it and go on. I am who I am. He should like you for who you are. Friends stick by friends regardless. You should just ask him why he quit talking to you. That way you will know. Maybe he thought your friendship was in jeopardy? I don't know. But be sure to let me know about your situation. Always remember everyone has a flaw. Seen and unseen.
2006-09-02 14:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went you your 360, and you are a topical , standard ,good looking young female???, being young everyone looks ,are the best at different times, some look good as children, some look good at your age , and some look great at 30, and 40, just depends on you.
you have your look,kind-ah sultry,need to see you smile, but ...every one is different ...so just move on, people with smiler int rests, are More compatible, than, people that look smiler., when you go to college, etc, you will find many others interested in [you] not how you look.:)
only one percent of tanagers are in fashion magazines, the rest are normal, looking.
2006-09-02 14:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, being an overweight female, I've had it happen before. It's pretty shallow when someone bases everything on looks.
2006-09-02 14:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks aanit evrey thing its whats on the inside that counts well for me it does
2006-09-02 14:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by Danny_Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋