after you break up with your gal after a drawn out break up, now we finally let it go, how do you get past it, attention of other girls doesnt seem to help.
2006-09-02 06:50:02 · 24 answers · asked by Kal-El 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time is a great healer. Cliche but true! After my first marriage broke down then I thought I'd never get over it but now, happily re-married, all my memories are filled with the life I have had since I met him, and the heartache I thought would never end is barely registered in the memory. It really does feel like it was all all lifetime away. You will get over her and meet someone new, probably when you least expect it. Just don't pass up every opportunity thinking you're not ready. It might just be 'the one' and you'll appreciate it all the better after what's happened.
Just seen Jason d's advice!!!!! had to edit and say that all women are not like that!!! If you behave like a shallow heartless person then you will be alone for a very long time!!!Treat someone as you'd like to be treated within a relationship and it'll be far more rewarding and fulfilling.
2006-09-02 06:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by wee stoater 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What helped me was just being out there by myself.. Having a good time and not expecting anything to happen.. Just being myself and trying, always trying to remember that my relationship wasn't all of me.. On my own I am a somebody.. You get used to being with another person sometimes you get lost is part of the reason why it's hard to function when it's over.. When some other girl is giving you (or trying to) attention,, just enjoy feeling attractive.. don't take it too seriously because you are not ready for it.. You will in time..
2006-09-02 06:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 07:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by basinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's being hard time now, you might be missing her a lot. There's a lot of empty spaces to be filled, memories every where (of course, if you've had such a long-term relationship).
For me, I used to stick myself to work or learning or hanging out with friends, whatever that takes your brain and gives you fun. For the rest, time will take the resposibility to make it past.
By the way, have you tried to take her as friend? I know it might sound uncomfortably, but give that a try... It's working somehow for me.
Someone told me, love (and its related) is not to be looked for, it just happens. What will be, will be. Knowing for sure, someday in the future, you will have realized that you past it!
2006-09-02 07:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by go 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure u have a guy as a friend not one or two like three of them but just friend b'cos u will learn more when u are with them. But make sure u are slow in talking and learn fast to pick what they say. That is how u will there mind and what they are thinking about u and u may be fortunate to have one of them as ur new guy maybe.
2006-09-05 14:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by tomapepe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is a great healer. The attention of other girls will help you when your lonely but it won't take the feelings and emotions from you break up away.
2006-09-06 01:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously when i broke when my first love i went back to when i was young. i played old video games and watched movies that i did when i was young. Also going out to bars with freinds so girls can talk to you but only to talk nothing else. You will soon get a crush on someone and ul notice that ur ex is just a pleasent memory. good luck
2006-09-02 07:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Craigie84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say this but it's true. It takes time. You need to grieve and then move on. Sometimes it seems like forever, but moving on too fast will only make you feel worse. You need some alone time.
Peace.
2006-09-02 06:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by angieasee64 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going out on the rebound doesn't work. You need the company and support of your dearest and best friends at a time like that, works for me.
2006-09-02 06:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by adozenredroses12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need time, enjoy a bit of life, have fun, it will come, when you see some one that will interest you, Your heart will start working again, learn from your mistakes, and this will make you a better person, and a wiser one.
2006-09-02 07:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋