i just started w my bf the same day i met him.it's been about 2 weeks.but i havent seen since we met & became bf & gf. at first we talked alot. over a hr an 1/2. For a few days we didnt.Later he told me he had been busy with roofin which i could beleive. he said he would meet me yesterday.I waited a hour.i eventually called him on my cell & he said he had been w his uncle.I wanted to reply how i was upset but decided not to since we just started. I talked to him a little & he had do go. He kinda said maybe today but we didnt talk about it. I dunno if this will last. Should I call it quits now since i just met? am i lookin too far? was i just dumb starting a relationship w some1 i just met?
2006-09-02 06:38:54 · 9 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends. Does HE not last long? If he doesn't, ditch him. It will never be a satisfying relationship and you will end up on yahoo answers all the time trying to work through it.
2006-09-02 06:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by BadAdvice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question....I dont think you should NOT give up, your only thinking like this because you are looking at all the negatives. Try looking at the positives. First of all, you said that you guys are bf and gf, so it sounds like its getting pretty serious if you guys have had the serious convo. If not, then maybe its on its way to getting serious. You are definately looking too far and you dont want him to see that cause that will scare him. But you guys are still talking and think about some of thing s that he has to you.Try to take it one day at a time, you gotta be with cool it. It doesnt have anything to do with it being too soon, all relationships have to start somewhere. Just try to keep your self busy and stop thinking about him all the time. I know girls tend to this a lot.
2006-09-02 13:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes humans are just jerks. it no longer taste nice if u know it's easy to come by. did anyone ever told u it's always gd to play hard to catch? it's just like fishing.. sometimes u gotta let go then sometimes u gotta hold tight.. it seems like the guy's nt interested in u at all.. think about it.. it's always the honeymoon period initially that u can command anything. and if he really loves u.. u'll definately feel like a princess.. being valued and doted.. tonz of his calls..meeting up whenever it's possible..letting u have all the say.. gal's intuition's very accurate,since u already felt something is wrong then why keep heading in deeper into the well? be smart.. chunk him aside and move on.. these kind of guys are nt worthy enough for us!
2006-09-02 13:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by mystical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to know guys. Guys are intense right away and then back off awhile. It's important that you stay best friends. That's the best love that lasts. Give him time. Don't scare him off by being too clingy, and if he acts short with you stay friendly and make him feel comfortable. We guys are like little boys in some ways. We get the toy we've wanted a long time and then even though we love it a lot we act like we take it for granted. Be patient! I'm a guy... I know I'm guilty myself.
2006-09-02 13:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moving fast definatly doesn't mean it an't last. My senior high Bf and i moved very fast. and now we have been married over a year. But that doesn't mean it will be that way for everyone. If you think moving fast could ruin things. tell him you want to slow it down a lil. Especially since you don't even see each other much. tell him you understand he was with his uncle but he could have called and told you he would be gone al day so you weren't home waiting by the phone. just don't make it seem like your trying to keep tabs on his every move.
2006-09-02 13:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by Niky B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a fast start means he wanted to have sex and leave. Sometimes a fast start is a red flag, that the guy is a manipulator and wants an exclusive relationship. one where you are exclusively with him, but he is free. Think about a relationship. don't jump into bed and call it a life altering moment. few are.
2006-09-02 13:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by pitmanette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you were very dumb. If i do say so myself it sounds like you wanted a fling to go a little further and he just went along with the program to get what he wanted.
2006-09-02 13:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by terence w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That,s a funny thing about guys they want it and they want it now
but when they get it they don't what to do with it.
2006-09-02 13:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by Michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessity but usually
2006-09-02 13:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by wil_t52 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋