How do I get a guy I like to notice me in a good way?

Question

I really want him to discover how well we'd go together.

Answer 1

Talk to him, my guess is you haven't even talked to him yet. Make sure you get lots of eye contact. Don't act like a ditz around him.

Answer 2

Your question is a good one, , By nature we men are predators when it comes to women. That is a function of "survival of the species."

We cannot help that, but we can also use out native intelligence to control it.

It depends more upon the man who notices you than you, yourself.

When a man notices you for the first time, he will speculate as to how good you are in bed. He will check our your vital statistics and if you are a 36-18-36, he may be instantly interested.

If you are 44-48-55 he will quickly disregard any notice of you.

If you are somewhere in between, not too skinny and hot too heavy, that is good.

So what can you do to be sure. Look at the man's eyes first and observe him for a time to make sure that you want him to notice you.

When you are satisfied that you do, there are several things you can do. A lot of it depends upon where you are, in a crowd or just a few people. (Never if you are alone, that is dangerous)

First of all make sure your appearance is nice. Wear a subdued by pleasant perfume,
If there is someone near you that you can assist in anything, like holding a chair for an older person, if you are in a restaurant ect. Be the good Samaritan if the opportunity is there.

Keep a pleasant by not too agressive look on your face, think of something you really like to do and that will take care of that element.

Above all, assume a quiet attitude, That will make you more mysterious and it will arouse his curiousity.

When girls have everything out in the open, they are not very attractive. The quiet ones are the turn on's.

Don't make the mistake of showing too much of yourself, Let the man's imagination do that.

I hope this helps you little lady

Jaread

PS: Sorry about this guys, but she did ask.

Answer 3

If you want a guy to notice you in a good way,honestly there's nothing much you can do but be yourself. It depends on what you do to get a guys attention. Because whatever you do that's the way he'll look at you. Besides think about some guys aren't really worth your attention so really check him out and try to get to know him.

Answer 4

I am Assuming you are Female ???? :-)

Most men will take on any female that is somewhat attractive and makes herself available in some sexual way. It is uncommon for a US female to present herself to a male because of our Mores and norms. Most of life is driven by animal urges and not reason. It is unlikely for you to be noticed in any GOOD (nonsexual) way unless you make yourself useful like expert in automobiles or cooking or whatever. You need to prove yourself useful or sexual or men will most probably just ignore you as an annoyance of some kind. Men seem to respect talents that give them the power to deal with the unusual in everyday life.
Even if you can appeal in a nonsexual way you may excite a sexual response just by your closeness and nothing more so please be careful.

Answer 5

Introduce yourself in a Ladylike manner and try to already have a common interest-even a stupid web-site- and continue the conversaton from there. Then- SUBTLY, pay him a compliment......

Answer 6

do you both enjoy. ask him on a "date", but do stuff that both of you do well together. i don't know what that is, but if it's skating, then go skating with him. if it's surfing, go surfing with him. but try to go with him alone. maybe invite on of YOUR friends who knows how you feel about him to drop some hints. maybe he doesn't see how well you are together the way you see it. maybe he needs help seeing what you see.

Answer 7

Don't be afraid to show a little a$$.

Answer 8

smile, say hi, say u wanna go for some coffee.

Answer 9

just say hey to him, or know where he's gonna be, then talk or do something he likes

Answer 10

tell him you need to talk than take him to a hotal