i am inlove with a man frome a different country. we talk all the time but realy want to be with each other. i get real sad when we are not talking or with eachother. i know that i have it bad. he is trying to come to me and i want to go to him. should i just wait? or should i barrow the money to go and see him? how do i know if he is for real? if he realy wants to be with me or if he is just saying that to be nice to me?
2006-09-02 05:45:55 · 13 answers · asked by kathy froggylady40 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this is for real, then it can wait. You can write him also, this may help the phone bill, This is what you call Love makes the heart grow stronger. Let him make the effort to come to you.
2006-09-02 05:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found that when the desire to be together is truly mutual, the efforts being made to get together are ALSO mutual. I met someone from Canada and she flew down to see me first. This resulted in me putting in equal effort to get up there. It's a two-way street, darlin'. I wouldn't go get a mortgage to afford a trip quite yet. Have him come to you first!
2006-09-02 12:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not say what country he is from or hoe old you both are. If he is from the middle east, that could spell trouble. Maybe for the time being stick with good American boys.
2006-09-02 12:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better watch out, messing with some guy in a different country. You dont know who youre talking to, he could be some sex slave trader or something.
2006-09-02 12:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by dezzykotajamz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to just wait if he really wants to see u he will come to u.
2006-09-02 12:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by rm38358 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't borrow money to go see him. Let him come to you. If you are really that important to him he will come to see you.
2006-09-02 12:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in your same situation except now my guy is dead adn i just found out this weekend if you really love him, life is too short to wait go for it
2006-09-02 12:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by amber_woodland2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you wait so he can come to you couse if you go to him and he dosent love you then he will be mean to you so let him to you
2006-09-02 12:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety wait for him,what if things dont work out you'll be in a strange place alone ,if he wants you make him work it -lol-edi
2006-09-02 12:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by edisquest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that long distance-computer love stuff is weird to begin with
2006-09-02 12:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by poot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋