what would you do if someone did not want to be your bestfriend anymore...
2006-09-02 05:05:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
and that person already has a new bestfriend in 3 days
2006-09-02 05:27:04 · update #1
Talk to the person and see what is the reason why. You may have inevitablely insulting them without you knowing it. If he/she refused to do that then I guess you will have to move on with your life. Can't let that thing get you down when you have more people to see who will one day become your best friend.
2006-09-02 05:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by The Chaotic Darkness 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, at first it would hurt me. My ego would be crushed and probably cause me to get angry and hate the person.
But then, after I calm down and have a few days to think about it. I would tell myself that for whatever reasons this person felt that he/she didn't want to be my friend anymore..I will respect that. (I'd still be hurt) but I will understand that people come and go throughout our lives and that if I really cared about the friendship, then I will treasure the memories of that friendship and hope that whatever she wants to do with her life now that I wish her the best.
2006-09-02 05:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sydney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While this is, right now, a crushing blow to you, this too shall pass. This world is sooooooooooo full of people. You will find another best friend. In fact, you may find many best friends. Hang in there. Try not to take it personal. Life does go on, and you'll be fine, really.
Good luck to you.
2006-09-02 07:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by jmiller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I've gone through this alot. Talk to the peron and find out why. If that doesn't work, just give the person some space see what happens from there,
2006-09-02 05:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by alexis.=) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go and move on with your life. People change and NOT always for the better~! There's a whole big world full of people!
2006-09-02 05:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they turned that easily, they were not your best friend sweetie:-)
You are better off than associating with a backstabber.
Move on and befriend people who are worth your attention.
2006-09-02 05:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda of in the same spot as you are. I guess I would say " you've just ruined my life" or something to make them feel guilty.
2006-09-02 21:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by twilight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly,ask myself whether i had done something wrong to him/her.
Secondly, talk to him/her that you still cherish the friendship we once had.
Thirdly, If it still couln't work out, just let him/her go as long as i have tried my best wholeheartedly.
2006-09-02 05:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by Chanel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him/her a big hug ,and continue with you life ,with out thinking him/her,Friends never quit,if he quit he is not friends
2006-09-02 05:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by informatica 4 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chalk up the loss, and find a new best friend.....you don't need "friends" like that.
2006-09-02 05:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by Easter Bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋