my best friend never told me that she broke up with her boyfriend.
i have to find out through another friend.
and when i aked her why she didn't tell me she said that it wasn't my bussness in the first place and why does she have to tell me it's between her and her boyfriend.
so now i'm really pissed at her because i'm her best friend.
am i doing to right thing?
and then when she asked her friend if she told me she said that she didn't tell me about her breaking up with her boyfriend. so now she is mad becasue she said that i lied to her so now she doesn't trust me either.
so now wat do i o about this situation.
2006-09-02 05:05:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being someone best friend don't mean they will and have to tell you everything that going on in your lives.
2006-09-02 05:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im thinking she is feeling very clausterphobic.
I know with my friend she gets involved into everything until I have to just tell her right out its non of her buisness so maybe she is feeling pressured and almost like your smuthering her. Let off some and give her some space, But do straighten out the fact that you didn't lie to her so that trust can be built back up. Explain to her and if she still does not believe in you then I would give it all up and just walk away and if she wants to be friends she will make the effort once again after this all settled to come back to you and see how your doing and everything. if she doesn't then don't get all down on yourself friends come and friends go. It's ok.
it's for a reason that may be unknown.
Just give her some space.... Let the butterfly go and if it's ment to be it will come back to you.
Cause one thing I found out through out my life is this... Friendship is not a one way street.
It's a two way high way. Meaning you can't be the only one making the moves to keep this friendship kindled she has to be trying to.
Not a one way street baby! always remember that. because if it's only you making sure the friendship is alive. Then man it's not worth the exhausted feeling afterwards. Not worth it.
Maybe she is puposely trying to break off the friendship. Look beyond the circumstance and look into the friendship ask yourself is it worth saving.
Best of luck !!
2006-09-02 05:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may feel she is your best friend, but you are not hers. Obviously she had told other friends about the break up and not you. Girlfriends always talk to each other about their boyfriends, this thing about it not being your business should be a big signal to you that she does not want you in her business. I say find a new best friend. With friends like this one, who needs enemies!
2006-09-02 05:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend doesn't tell you anything, u should go upto her and ask wheather do I have done something wrong to you? and if she says no,you should explain her that as she is your best friend she means a lot to you and tell her that how you feel about her broke up with her boyfriend.
2006-09-02 05:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by s.u.w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...maybe she likes you.
2006-09-02 05:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie Mae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋