i am very sensitive when my boyfriend talks about his crushes or not texting me what happened or where he is. i hate it when i am like that. its like im starting to get paranoid about everthing. i think alot and i have those "what if" scenarios going on in my head. i have full trust on my BF and i know that he will not cheat on me because he has been honest with me and eventhough he doesnt text me all the time, he has an appropriate reason for it. despite all these things, i still feel that i am not convinced and my mind is playing tricks on me that i start to get teary-eyed and cry and talk nonsense to my bf about all these things. i think i am insecure and VERY sensitive. how can i not be like this??? its making me crazy and making my personality change (to a negative one, because i used to be a positive person) as time pass by...................
2006-09-02 04:53:50 · 6 answers · asked by lochiaserosa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit worrying so much and do something that you enjoy to take your mind off all the negativity. There has to be something that you enjoy doing that will occupy your mind. I am sure that your boyfriend isn't worrying every minute of every day and it is probably getting old to him that you are worrying so much.
2006-09-02 04:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am an ultra sensitive person where my feelings are hurt easily,etc, but this going beyond sensitive. So I was hoping someone had to the answers of how to desensitize yourself. But your problem is much deeper,You have taken on the identity of someone else ---your boyfriend. You need to realize he is not your property. He is a separate being and you will drive him away with this behavior. Do you want to loss him? If you don't want to you HAVE to STOP being so possessive and controlling.. Talk to a counselor about this. This is bad behavior.
2006-09-02 05:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are very insecure and afraid and i lost someone when i got like that. you have to be the one person they want and they wont want you if you are like that. you have to be the sexy confident person that knows what they want and do it cause insecure and jealous and afraid is not attractive. find the one thing that gives you a goal/dream and strive for it and life will find you.
2006-09-02 05:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've tried to change too, ican't, so if u find a way, let me know. GooD LucK
2006-09-02 04:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's normal,we all get that way at times.Just dont let him know or he'll think otherwise.
2006-09-02 04:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by emmanuella p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i might be able to help you, had/have the same problem... just mail me...
2006-09-02 05:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by publically_private 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋