My b/f and i go 2 different skools so he isn't aloud 2 go 2 my dances. So at the first dance i went w/ friends. well this really good song came on so i was dancing, and then his best friend comes up behind me and we start dirty dancing. At first we didn't know who each other was until the end. I told my b/f cuz i wanted nim 2 hear it 4rm me instead of someone else and he took it kinda hard, and now he won't talk 2 his friend and gat in a very violent fight that included a knife. do u think he is taking it a little 2 hard? i don't know how 2 act around him ne more. plz someone help me!!!!!
2006-09-02 04:30:02 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he says he's not mad @ me just his friend. but i feel like a total slut now. billy says its not my fault just j.t.'s (thats the guys name). but it is my fault.
and he didn't use the knife he just pulled it out.
2006-09-02 04:45:18 · update #1
First yes he is taking it to hard...it was just a dance.....You couldnt dance with him because he wasnt there right...You didnt kiss or anything...tell your boyfriend that you still care about him...and or love him....and tell him that the dance didnt mean anything..
2006-09-02 04:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lennie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make a difference. You should stay away from him anyway now that he has tried to use a knife on someone. This is a sure sign that in the future he will be worse. Maybe in the future if you do something wrong, he will stab you.........Please think this through. Billy
2006-09-02 11:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Billy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes don't allow him to run your life your not married just dating.And you two are still in school and your going to have your own friends that you will have fun with like him.And if he's that violent now and your not married I think that's something to look into.Would you want to marry a man that can not control his temper over something as small as that?I don't know how old you two are but you still sound young and he maybe still may have some growing up to do.Don't force this relationship to soon you will learn why more later.Best Wishes.
2006-09-02 11:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by endigogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly it sounds like you need to break up with your b/f. Only a truly sweet guy would understand that it was JUST A DANCE and you guys werent making out or anything. He needs to chill, hes probably worried if he loses you he will never be able to get anyone else. Which, if you do what is right and dump him, he most likely wont find ne one else. Good luck!
2006-09-02 11:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is taking it way too hard. It is just an insecurity but he needs to get over it. I have some concerns about his violence if a knife was involved. You may not want to be his gf because the potential of violence toward you. If your parents knew all of this, they would tell you the same thing. Good luck
2006-09-02 11:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he is kinda over reacting. he might be acting this way maybe bcoz he's jealous or it may be smethin else. he is really acting bad about it. i dont think that u made a mistake by dancing with him since u didn't even know who he was at first, it's just after tht u knew. but i dont think tht he should have acted like tht and even start a fight. maybe it bcoz he likes u a lot that's why he is over reacting coz he doesn't want u hanging around other guys.
2006-09-02 11:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by animallover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your so-called 'boyfriend' has a violent streak and will end up in jail carrying a concealed weapon to school. You need to drop him, honey. He's too dangerous and if you're with him, he might just decide to take all of his anger out on you. You're not married to the guy; you can go out with more than one guy and enjoy yourself. Drop the "drip" now before he hurts someone!
2006-09-02 11:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A knife???? Stay away from this guy or one day he could turn is aggression on you!!! He shouldn't have taken it so hard because you were honest and obviously you're not into his friend. Be careful with a guy like this.
2006-09-02 11:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by CR2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Violent fight and a knife. BAD BAD BAD NEWS, stay away from this guy. Life is alot easier than this and shouldn't involve violence. Intellegent people don't use violence for resolution. they sort thinks out by negotiation or walk away.
2006-09-02 11:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by oooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy with a knife.........scary. Gurl, if i were you id dump him in a heartbeat. It is crazy for him to take it that far, come on, he couldn't come to the dance so you couldn't just be lonely on prom night! Dump him. I wish you best of luck!!!***!!
2006-09-02 11:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by Christy P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋