ive got five kids help me?

Question

my three young boys r so naughty and cry alot ive tried everything is this nomal for boys three and under or am i doing something wrong i cudle and kiss them i play help me anyone please

i just want to say thank you to everyone for there good ideas and thanks for helping ive learned quit a few things of all the nice people in here thakyou.

Answer 1

they sound like they are chasing your attention all the time, i know how hard bringing up kids is but never despair because every bit of their childhood reflects things you have taught, shown them.....you are doing the right thing by cuddling them etc, but don't forget to listen to them, carefully, they each have different needs and its so easy to miss something.....i work with all ages of children now, i must be a sucker for punishment...lol...i know it may be hard to do sometimes but enjoy every minute while they are young........good luck hun....

Answer 2

To start i really wish that people that don't have children would'nt answer these question's! I know how you feel to a T. I have 2 boys and 2 girls. ages 8,6,5 and 2. I have taken many and many parenting classes. but sometimes they really drive me crazy. the best things to do is the following:
1. Redirect them meaning get them out side in the fresh air.
2. Talk to them! and Listen to what they have to say.
3. They could be really tired and not know it.
4. Take a break from them even if you have to hide in the bath room for 5 minutes.
5. Keep on loving them and every thing will be all right.

Good Luck!!!!

Answer 3

It takes an INCREDIBLE amount of energy to keep a child under 3 directed into appropriate activity and curbed from harm or challenging behavior. You need to get ahead of them and give them things to do for play. Some of it needs to be active play to burn their energy. Make a fort out of cushions and blankets. Let them bounce on the cushions. Teach them somersaults. I hate to say it, but let the TV take a 30 minute turn if you need a break. It's not good, but burning out is worse.
Sounds like you are already doing all you should.
Once they are three they can begin to learn, but before then - all instinct and curiosity.
Buck up - they will be older soon...and they don't stay so cute forever.

Answer 4

Boys will be boys and all under 3, my hats off 2 u, Hell no you are not doing anything wrong, let them know that you need them just as much as they need you, ask them to help you do something like little things make them feel important and that they are a big help and that might help them Chanel there energy on you and help you out in the long run, Team Work Girl, and what great little men they will turn out to be, Good Luck

Answer 5

As a mother of 5 and also an RN it sounds like your younger ones are going through the terrible two's. My 2 year old almost 3 cries all the time and throws tantrums. You need to be as patient as possible and get down on his level and let him know that he is acting badly. Then implement either a time out or something where he learns consequences so that he will learn not to act the way he is. This is his way of expressing himself and he wants to be heard. You need to help him learn a new calmer safer way to demonstrate and talk about his feelings. Good Luck if you need anything IM me.

Answer 6

As the mother of 7 children, I say it is absolutely not normal for young children to behave in this manner! Your children are wanting negative attention for some reason. Are you consistent in what you say? Are you giving them good attention throughout the day? Don't you watch too much TV and don't let them watch hardly any TV. TV has tendency to cause aggressive behavior in young children. Are they over tired? Are they getting the proper amount of rest? This is very often a common demonatory for whining. Child love structure. Have a pattern every day of activities, etc. Read to them. Touch them often. Allow them to be your complete focus. Nothing should be more impoertant than them. :Cleaning and scrubbing can wait 'til tomorrow for babies grow up I've learned to my sorrow so quiet down cobwebs, dust go to sleep. I'm rocking my baby and babies don't keep.-----that's my philosophy. Give them more positive attention. Go to parenting classes if you have too. With the positive attention comes less negative attention. You will become so blessed once you figure this outl

Answer 7

If they cry alot maybe you should try not to cudle with them cause i think that will make do it more. Sometimes children cant get everything they want if i had a child i wouldnt do he/she would just have to toughen up and i think this is normal, if your there mother and your there for them all the time of course your not doing anything wrong. Just try not to cudle with them all the time i know you love them to death but if you keep cuddling with them there going to keep doing it maybe until they get older. So i hope you take this advise and try it. Good Luck!

Answer 8

with 5 kids your past help sorry but seriously lighten up there are no two kids the same i have five and i was widowed when they were all young the youngest was 7 the oldest 15 and i survived they all got kids of thier own now and the grandchildren are now giving me headache bless them i had 1 child that absolutely no way would he be cuddled and one that was always cuddly the thing is treat them all according to thier age and don,t try treating the older ones like the younger ones they will resent this and give them responsibilities according to thier age and abilty make them all feel important in thier own individual ways give praise where praise is due and set out time for yourself for relaxing have play time with the kids and do one on one time for them all avoid shouting and swearing at them this action will only cause a reaction and it is the only way they can get your attention all be it a negative attention give them little rewards for good behavior and forfiets for bad have set routines kids really do like routine for example set mealtimes and bath an bed times and teach them it is only fair that the older ones heve later bedtimes you will get there in the end just have faith in yourself good luck

Answer 9

im a mum of 4 and have 3 boys under the age of 5, mine are naughty all the time and are always up to something, they have days when they are very moody too and wont show me any affection, i think children have off days just like adults do

Answer 10

You should watch that Nanny 911 show - they give great tips for dealing with lots of little ones. You definetely need to set up some ground rules in your house and make them follow them, don't back down on an issue if they're really being bad.