ok what do i do if i have a bf and there is a guy who likes me and hes older but him and my bf r both hot what do i do and i like them both
2006-09-02 03:50:04 · 16 answers · asked by goale_soccer_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay with your boyfriend, trust me!!
2006-09-02 03:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
which one has goals in life to begin with? Just because a hot guy likes you does mean that he is the best pick . does he like you for who you are or does he think your hot or easy to take advantage of does your boyfriend treat you good? these are just a few of the questions you need to ask yourself. Is loyalty an important thing for you in a relationship if it is you should try to be loyal and give it your best in this relationship. Why did you get with your bf to begin with? When you are looking for a bf you need to look for the characteristics that are going to fit otherwise you are going to get into a pattern of bad relationships in life that will ruin it.
2006-09-02 11:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by mikel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't see a future with this boyfriend, it's okay to see the other guy. But you should tell the boyfriend you want to see other people. On the other hand, you may not like this other guiy once you get to know him. JUst becasue someone is hot doesn't mean they have a decent personality. You may regret it.
2006-09-02 10:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could either stay with your bf cause then you won't have to hurt his feelings. or go for the other guy because obviously you find him attractive even when you have an attractive bf right now. if you stay with your current bf, you may always be wondering about the other guy
2006-09-02 10:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by christinaz22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your looking for a long term relationship, stay with the boyfriend but if your looking to just have fun, go with the older guy.
2006-09-02 10:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by dudster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) get him as the second one.
2) use the second as a spare part.
3) Take both in the same time ( for front & behind rooms ).
4) reserve the other one for when you have achieved to the
famous bit.ch record.
2006-09-02 10:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just simply CHOOSE between them. you cant have both. or better yet, dont be with any one of them. i think you dont know yourself because you still dont know what you want (as evidenced by being confused between the two guys). grow up and be mature first so you'll find a lasting relationship. you cant have a good relationship by just merely relying on feelings. love is not about feelings...love is a decision. feelings are unstable and you shouldn't build your tomorrow based on feelings. "youth is quick in feeling but very weak in judgment"...---just like you are.
2006-09-02 10:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is decide who is the one that treats you like you desrve to be treated and stick to that decision. Now, I know it's not marriage but, some commitment is needed. Good luck and I wish you happiness. God Bless you.
2006-09-02 10:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by jblaze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well weigh your options does your boyfriend show you attention,affection,love.do he respect you?and is he good to you? ok would you want another man to have your boyfriend if not then you leave this other man alone and let him find his on woman
2006-09-02 10:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b wit ur bf still
2006-09-02 11:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by Frendlygal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a relationship with your boyfriend all you have from hottie number 2 is promsies and fantasy.
2006-09-02 10:53:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋