how to make boys LOVE you?

Question

i m 20 yr old college going girl. i meet with so many boys thr but can see that they like talkin to me but dont see me as thr love interest.

i m neither too friendly nor too reserved, i always keep smilin n try to be happy, m gud lookin , wear elegant western clothes , well behaved, n may be too soft spoken.

an average student

i see that guys skow interest in me initially but then start behaving normal n ''thanda''.

how shud i behave or act to make themto take a step ahead.

Answer 1

just keep doing what you are doing. it sounds like you have good qualities and a good head on your shoulders. be patient, good things come to those who wait....sometime the good ones are the last to step up, they are more cautious or perhaps taken. it's about being in the right place at the right time. frequent places that interest you, if you find or meet someone there you will both have something in common.
if you have a special friend try baking their favorite cookies. may sound corny but guys like a girl who can cook and is willing to do so. it represents a good homemaker and potential mate and mother of their children.
do keep smiling, looking smart and smelling fresh and pretty. all of that will land you a very nice man. and what ever you do, don't settle for a loser just because you are lonely. there are lots of nice smart guys who are just a little too shy or don't know that a girl is interested in them. eye contact can help break the ice.
Keep on putting it out there, you'll land and real good man one of these days and this will be a long forgotten memory.
Best Wishes:)

Answer 2

First, no one can "make" anyone love them. Remember that.

Secondly, you are doing exactly as you should be doing - be yourself. Dont' change to attract attention, or act a certain way to get a boyfriend. Otherwise you are simply "acting" and "someone" else. They will fall for that "someone else" and not you. Am I making sense.

Love takes time, years to develop between two people. The perfect love should always begin as a friendship, that develops and grows into something more. Keep that in mind.

There is no timeframe for love, when will it happen, will it happen to me. Stop thinking about that and just enjoy being alive and with people. That is the best I can provide right now. I hope it helps.

Answer 3

Well, it is all about personality, they love someone bubbly, perhaps they think you might not be too available or they won't be up to your standards, or they may think you could be a bit stuck up, I've gone through that, you need to be more relaxed with yourself and be positive but, most of all be very self assured, just show you are light and easy going, they like light, not hard, you may be very well dressed and all that, but if there is no spark, they go somewhere else, you should be more energetic, lively, fun, you know just really lighten up and things will begin to change, don't be uptight, they don't like that.

Answer 4

Be yourself!! You wouldnt want someone fake acting to be around you and you fall in Love with them, only to find out they are not what you thought they were.

Let Love happen naturally, slowly, and over time. You are young so, be yourself, hang with people who share the same interests and let things take their course.

Sometimes, that showing of interest is or could be the beginning of something special. Dont force it, push it or try to drag it any faster than its going. Take YOUR time.

Answer 5

First off.....you can't MAKE anyone love you. Love happens on it's own in it's own time. Be yourself!! Don't act a certain way to please or attract people. Sooner or later you will have to be yourself so they might as well enjoy you for who you are. If you have to force it or fake it, leave it alone. You'll find your love interest when the time comes. Until then, just enjoy life.

Answer 6

I would say be your natural self.They must like you as you are without any artificial props to make the relationship lasting. Give it time and wait patiently. Things happen not as per your desires but as willed by some mysterious power that seems to be guiding us all.

Answer 7

Dont be shy, u make the first move, if u have an interest in someone ask him to dinner or a movie, or what ever your into, gotta let him know your out there,and wanting someone to hang with.

Answer 8

That's a difficult question. Don't behave a certain way, just act like yourself and the right guy will come along and appreciate it.

Answer 9

dress like a slut. wear a shirt that says, "sperm dumpster" and
no panties with your short skirt. in five minutes you'll have more guys on you than a sausage fest at a gay bar. don't forget the birth control. for real though, get rid of the western satire. the last thing we need is you riding on horseback to school.

Answer 10

You can't MAKE anyone LOVE you. If you are a college student you SHOULD have better grammar skills. BTW what the hell are "elegant western clothes". You sound like a whiner...work on you!