Its soo annoying he wakes up too much when he’s sick. My wife doesn’t even sleep, she wakes up like every hour feels his forehead then goes back to sleep. He pukes on my bed, and my wife is all OK with it and I jus think he’s nasty. I told him he’s nasty too, he jus looked at me with a sad little face and said “ wheres mommy?” im like “how the hell do I no where she is? Downstairs maybe” whatever.. Im being serious so plz answer. Thanks!! ohh and she said shes gonna divorce me.
2006-09-02 03:47:49 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Damn dude. That's your son. You should be concerned about his illness, not annoyed.
2006-09-02 03:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by Stryker 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I can't honestly believe you are being serious. I'm not even sure I should waste my time with this... But just in case you are...
You obviously weren't ready to have kids. And, you obviously weren't man enough to suck it up and grow up and become a man when you did.
The fact that your 2 year old knows enough to make a face and ask for his mommy when you say terrible things like that just proves that your toddler is more mature and intelligent than you are.
It takes two to parent. A lot of people answered that a kid needs his Mom. Well, he needs his Dad too... but not one that is going to be mean and abusive and disrespectful like you. I hope for that childs sake that you are just having a really bad day.
That's your flesh and blood. A being that will love you till the day you die. A little person who would give the world for your approval, and you told him he's nasty.
You should be praising your wife for taking such good care of your son and helping her. It's hard work being a wife and a mother, and I would imagine she's holding down a job as well. I can't believe your mature enough to be able to support them both.
If you can't even have sympathy for a sick child, let alone YOUR sick child, you shouldn't be anywhere near him.
A divorce might be the best thing for everyone considered.
And, I hope this question comes back to bite you in the a** during the custody battle.
BTW - Thanks for reminding me to be thankful everyday for my son and my husband who offer me love, kindness and support.
2006-09-02 04:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by Amalthea 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to get some serious help!! If somewhere deep down you really want to "love" your son and wife; You need to figure out why you are being such a shithead!! There are no words to mince what type of person you are coming across as! Your own parents, especially father figure must not have modeled how to be a good father......search your soul and decide if you want to alienate your son and pass the legacy onto to him. Stop the cycle of this unhealthy attitude and get into psychotherapy! In the meantime, your wife should separate or divorce you, in order to protect the well being of your son. I sincerely wish you good luck and the strength to become the Father, Man and Husband you can be!
2006-09-02 04:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by river 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said you're being serious and you want a serious answer? Well here goes. She lets the 2 year old sleep in your bed when he's sick because she's a devoted and caring parent... which is the least I can say about you. I think you should go see your lawyer and have those divorce papers drawn up along with full custody awarded to her. Good luck to you.
2006-09-02 05:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by jeffypuff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait, back up. There are 2 issues at hand. 1 divorce & 2 the kid. The way you write, I must ask if the kid is yours? If this kid isn't yours, get out of his life now and get divorced. If the kid is yours then you have to agree with your wife on some rules. My old man didn't like having kids in the bed because he didn't want us being dependent emotionally. In that regard they were on the money. But if your wife wants to baby this kid when he's sick, let her & go sleep on the couch. At a certain age though she must cut that off though.
The other thing to though is if you want to get a divorce and have no desire to save the marriage, then just do it and get it over with.
2006-09-02 04:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by John E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then she's a very smart woman, you prick. I really do hope she follows through on her threat and divorces yous.
What kind of ****** are you? You might be a father because you donated your sperm to create a child, but you are definitely not a daddy and you never will be. If you ask a mom to choose between a sick child and an ****** like you, I'd pick the child every time.
And if the sick child annoys you that much, why don't you leave and go sleep on the couch instead of whining to us about it?
2006-09-02 11:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by birdlover515 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she doesn't divorce you...she should really consider it! Is this both you and her child or does this child just belong to her. You sound like a very unloving person and needs some parenting skills. It is possible that you are treating the child as you were once treated. Think about how you would feel if you were in the hospital, very ill....and uncertain what was wrong with you...but had to depend on others to assure you. If you still don't understand...then you need help rather than the child.
2006-09-02 07:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets just say this... NEXT time you have sex.. keep it covered, and you wont have this "problem" as you see it.... OR, save her the trouble and pack your stuff and get out.... You have no idea how hard it is to be a mother and keep things going and running smoothly in a home with little to no sleep... OH, and if that child was to end up in the hospital because he got so sick he needed IV fluids, are you gonna be the "PERFECT father" then? You need to grow up or let her have a life... and please dont teach your child your way of thinking.. Hopefully he will grow up to be a better man then you....
2006-09-02 03:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by kutskova29 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hope for the sake of your two year old that this is just a joke. Serious or not, you're an a**hole! You don't deserve to even be in the same room with your son- let alone to be part of his life. I hope your wife divorces you and may you fall ill one day and when that day comes, i hope your wife kicks you in the face. Grow up and i hope you get what you deserve.
thank you for making me realize how much my husband and my two sons love and appreciate me.
2006-09-02 06:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by mnm34 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK do you remember when you were a young boy and needed confort from your mom?Alright just enjoy your beautiful child while you can.And just enjoy your little moments with your son.And by the way you should go to a counselor if you and your wife are going to get a divorce because you are just going to mess up your cute kids life!
2006-09-02 04:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by iamtheprincesspink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should divorce you. I'm sorry, but being a mother comes first. If your son is sick and wants to be comforted than he should be. I am baffled with the reaction you have towards this little boy...is he your son? Not one time did you call him "son". Are you jealous that your wife spends more time with her son than you? Grow up!! If my husband treated our son the way you do he'd be out the door!
2006-09-02 07:07:22 · answer #11 · answered by teacher&mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋