i am looking for a name my five year old daughter can call my fionce, besides dad. He does not like it when we are out, and people tell him he has a beautiful daughter, then she says his real name when she is calling him. he wants something else she can call him that makes him feel more personable in her life. thank you.
2006-09-02 03:21:13 · 14 answers · asked by *HOT*GHETTO*MESS* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, it all depends on the relationship between the two of them. I am sure you can sit around and figure out something that is appropriate for her to call him.
So, you are getting married and I can understand him wanting something other than what everyone else calls him.
What about "Dae-Dae" or just "Dae"? It is not daddy but it is close enough to have the same meaning. That sounds cute as long as she is comfortable with call him that.
If he is going to take on a name like that, like another person pointed out, he should be more than willing to go to her school, interested in her report card, very concerned during an illness, even it means sitting with her, making sure she brushes her teeth and she eats right, play silly games with her, etc.
As long as the three of you know what a name stands for or even if she does continue to call him by his name, why should you or him care what someone else, who is in hearing distance thinks.
Remember they have their on problems and they should be trying to hurry home to read what other people on "Yahoo Answers" has written in and told to do with their situation!!! LOL :D
2006-09-02 07:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by geminisista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't suggest telling ur child to call him anything but his name he needs to grow up and realize that if she saw him as dad , papa or anything else she would be calling him that already. he can either accept that people compliment him on his daughter . Start acting like a dad and earn a title. Or ask her is she would like to call him something else i called my step dad by his name for many years he was never offended of felt he had to explain . I didn't love or care for him any less . but he was not my dad . anyone can be a father but only a special man can be daddy . accept what ur daughter want do not force anything .
2006-09-02 03:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by ~~*Brownie*~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her continue calling him by his name till he marries you. Then when he can be a real father to her, go for school report day, stay up when she is ill, clean up when she messes, defend her against bullies etc---there will develop a bond and trust. Then you both can ask her if she would like to call him something closer you can make suggestions like pop or pa or whatever but she might just surprise you with a simple word or none at all. It does not matter what outsiders think---just give more care and love into allowing them to develop a mutual trust and loving relationship.
2006-09-02 03:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by itsmehuh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing like living in fantasy land! She is not his dad and should not be calling him any form of "dad" if he doesn't like being called by his name, tell him it will change after the wedding. Now days people call a finance anyone that is in their bed. Is there a ring and a date? Then and only then he is your fiance. (The Chinese name for dad is "ba ba", which would work really well if his name was Bob)
2006-09-02 03:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 05:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom's honey!!
He should treat her like a real dad and she will call her dad, otherwise do not force directly or indirectly to call him as his dad.
2006-09-02 18:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by judicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one because you can not make your child call him somthing she is not comfortable with. My sons father has two other kids and this oldest son called me mom one day and I told him not to call me that because he has a mom and I am not and will never be his mother. I am like a mother but I am not his mother
2006-09-02 03:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by oneluv804 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stepper...make in an inside joke
2006-09-02 03:26:46 · answer #8 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR FIVE YEAR OLD DAUGHTER TO CALL HIM SUGAR DADDY.
2006-09-02 03:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by DAN B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm maybe she could come up with a nickname for him or if they had nicknames for each other.. good luck
2006-09-02 03:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by cirnrab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋