how do i know if my man is cheating on me.?

Answer 1

Some ways of knowing this are a change of character, he might come up with more excuses then ever before. Your sex life could be cut in half etc.... It's really hard to say because not every man acts the same way when their cheating. You will know because the feeling inside of you will be overwhelming. Something in you will just say it to you. If you and your man are really close you will know.

Answer 2

Wel, I could tell you things like:

Check his cellphone.

Notice if he's taking a bath right after coming home.

Notice if he's carrying his cellphone everywhere with him, even in the bathroom.

Check his underwear if there is residue of sperm., or if he left a watermark after cleaning the spots from his underwear.

Notice if he's leaving the house on strange hours.

If he's rejecting you more often in bed. ( could be because he already had seks and would have trouble having another erection )

Make sure to redail his last outgoing call everyday and listen to the voice on the other side. Don't say nothing.
Mayby when you redail, you'l hear a voice answering " "hey baby" or Hi my love" or " Can't get enough of me he?".

Check his cellphone for the one cellnumber that seems to appear very very often as "dailed" or as " incoming" .
That should be suspicious enough.

Smell his cloths for strange parfume. Woman's parfume

Install a password detecting software on his computer and check all his emails. Click on "sent mails"

Hire somebody to follow him from work.

Forward your homenumber to your cellnumber, this way when he calls home, he thinks your home, not knowing that the call is being forwarded to your cell.
When he calls you, ( to make sure that you are home )you are really behind him, following him.......If you do this you need another car, NOT your own car.
Car with tinted glass would be much better.

I COULD TELL YOU MORE, BUT I WON'T

MY REAL AND ONLY ADVISE TO YOU IS:

Tell him , you need to talk with him.
Both of you sit down, and have the most important conversation of your life.
Have this conversation without loud discussions, without irritated faces, without yelling at each other, without pointing fingers, without accusing each other.
If there are children involved, make sure they are at your mother's or father's house before he comes home, because this is really a conversation you need to have without being distracted.
Never, ever fight / physically or verbally abusing each other infront of the children. That is simply wrong..

Ask him what he wants out of life, what he wants out of this relationship. Share your views. Share your feelings, both of you.
Both of you need to answer the question if you guys are willing to go on.
Ask him to his face if he's cheating on you.
Make the necesarry changes to bring this relationship on track again. Not only him, but you too.

If indeed he was honest enough to admit that he cheated, take some time out from each other.
Crying does help. It relieves you.
If he respects you enough, he should leave the house, and be willing to stay somewhere else for a while.
At a brother, sister, mother, familymember.
You guys need to take this steps to heal, lick you wounds and commit to each other again, with a positive mindset.
If it's not working and you still love each other, look for professional help.

When back together,
Find common interest. Pay attention to each other likes and dislikes.
Hey Guys. Have FUN with each other !!
Laugh a lot. Play board games, organise or participate in carrally's, go offroad, make long healthy walks together. etc etc
It isn't about the activity, It's about staying together as a family. Doing things together as a family.

Make life worth living and never forget that there is a God watching over us.

You could thank me by Choosing me as "Best answer".

Answer 3

Women usually always know, some just don;t want to face the truth. If he is, stay calm, cool, collected, don't let him know that you know, get yours finances ready to leave him, Suck him financially dry. start stashing money away now. Then move out and get yourself and HIV-DNA by pcr test. Good luck, run silent, run deep.

Answer 4

To catch him in the act is the only real way to know - the rest would just be suspicions but no proof.

Answer 5

If he has not called you. If he is not caring about you. listen to me i am not that kind of a man I would all ways be there for you

Answer 6

if u know he had a shower after sleep with u if u smail like fish well u know.or he dasnt wont to sleep with u anymore.or as soon as he comes home hes takin a shower.

Answer 7

Always is gone act strange, he does`nt want to have sex with you, it is cold with you, never sleep in the same house all the time, too many late to dinner...

Answer 8

because you dont sleep together as much - you dont have physical love, and he hides his underwear in the laundry ! If in doubt get out ! Also he becomes more sly with his mobile!

Answer 9

Just pay attention and more than likely you will find out. Good luck.

Answer 10

If you are asking this, it means you

a) have suspicions based upon .............. ?

b) are already having doubts and can no longer fully trust him

c) probably already know but don't want to admit it

SO...... you have two options

FOLLOW HIM
or
CONFRONT HIM