My best friend is a girl. I have known her for 2 years. We text alot and when we do it is apparent thet we are great friends, I can tell her anything and vice versa. When we are alone together, like in school we (we're artistic) are doing a mural on a wall, so we are alone for a few hours every week. We are fine, we talk about anything. But when we hang out, we always bring friends. I'm not sure why. We dont even tell each other sometimes, but if I ask her does she want to hang out, or she askes me, then it is almost certain that one of us will bring a friend. I think I dont feel comfortabe alone with her in public. Why do you think that is? Does she feel the same way? We hung out once on our own and we were fine (didnt talk as much as usual tho) but friends say us and then lots of rumors started.
2006-09-02 03:00:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a girl who had a guy friend who is my best friend. We hang out alone all the time, but as a result, all of our friends, teachers, parents, and parent's friends say that we really love each other and will end up getting married. It is really annoying. But we decided that we like hanging out enough to deal with the rumors. You and your friend, however, might not want to deal with these rumors. That could be why you always bring another friend along. There is nothing wrong with that. It just is the way your friendship works.
2006-09-02 03:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by peachzncream3127 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you want to know her as a "grilfriend" ? Sometimes having a close friend that you can share everything with an be that close is one of the BEST relationships you can ever have. You don't say how old you and the girl are .. but I have heard of people being "best friends" to one another for several years, until they are older, and suddenly realizing that they truely love each other .. at a deeper level .. and, suddenly, overnight, become boy and girlfriend. I'd say you are a very lucky guy .. if things feel right this way .. why push the other ? If it is meant to be, believe me, you two will soar like a star when the time is right. In the meantime count your blessings that you found someone like this ...a TRUE friend that you can enjoy the company of and share everything with. TRUST is the first step in a romantic realtionship. I'd say you are definitely on the right road. Congrats ! :)
2006-09-02 10:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Resolve this. Ask her out on a date alone. Maybe begin with an exhibition or art show and then dinner or coffee. Even if it is awkward at first---get into general mutual topics of interest and shared laughter. Make it a short evening and do not get romantic or heavy. Then go back to your texting and whatever. After 2 weeks tell her how much you enjoyed spending time with her that day and would she like to again. Ask her what she would like to do and take it from there----BOL
2006-09-02 10:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by itsmehuh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its great to have a friend that is a girl if you are a guy. I never had it growing up. Dont worry about the rumors. You dont feel comfortable because either you like her and want to hold hands, or you are just friends and dont want to send the wrong message to other girls.
I am older now and my experience says that she likes being friends and simplicity of it. Dont change it for the world, and try to halt any emotions if they begin to appear.
In the end, it is your judgement.
2006-09-02 10:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by James S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she might be shy to be around you alone and you the same to me - or maybe just a coincidence, either way you both should set up a night for you to just hang out (not necessarily a date) and just see where it goes and if it goes well take a chance and ask her out!
if you really like her then go for him, because you never know when you might lose the chance too.
you only live once, make the most of it.
Good luck and God Bless.
2006-09-02 10:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a queasy stomach around her when you are alone. You obviously have some deeper feelings for her. If you guys can talk about anything, see what she feels about the whole situation. Since she brings friends too, maybe she feels the same way! GOOD LUCK
2006-09-02 10:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by nck_bulletzz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well maybe she thinks that sicnce you guys don't talk that much that you get bored and probably she does too
she probably wants some back up if it gets to quiet in the room
also she might just wanna be friends with you so when you ask her to "hang out" she probably get's intimidated and invites one of her friends.
P.S. hope i helped sweetie!
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2006-09-02 10:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by The Hot Latin Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't put labels on your friendship like b/f g/f just be natural and confident and NOT needy women hate that just relax and enjoy her company laugh and have a good time take her somewhere where there is a lot of activity or even group activities till things go a little smoother and not so weird feeling.
2006-09-02 10:22:49 · answer #8 · answered by big 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the reason for it is because you like her and she likes you. so your afraid what will happan if you both r alone so you bring a friend to make you calm. i think its time to ask eachother out i think its driving ya crazy. talk to her and tell her youd like to be alone with her. maybe go to a restront or a fast food joint and talk that way if you 2 dont feel confortable being alone your really not alone in a public pplace
2006-09-02 10:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well is it really that bad of a thing? you 2 are great friends, just a little nervous alone......
or it could be that she likes you and is just nervous about how you'l respond, and maybe doesnt want other people to see you two alone in public for fear they might start thinking something is up
2006-09-02 10:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by Peace35 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋