i met this woman 2 days ago at a bookstore she is 28 and i am 19 all of a sudden she is talking about moving in with me she even wants me to go to another town today with her just to visit she wants me to meet some of her family members already
2006-09-02 02:51:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she has been married befor and she has a kid
2006-09-02 02:56:02 · update #1
YES SHE IS MOVING TOO FAST
The age difference makes me wonder, but it seems she may be in need of a sugar daddy, or is hiding something serious from you and she needs help. She could be running from an ex, be in debt, or be pregnant and hoping to lure you quickly.. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE
2006-09-02 02:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boy, have you read what you wrote? Have you actually read it?? The answer, in my opinioin and I am sure many others, is a resounding YES! You met here TWO days ago! Not to mention that you are 19 and she is 28...difference of 9 years. Honestly I bet you two are in different places in your lives, and moving in with someone you barely know is not a good idea. Meeting her family is okay I guess. My boyfriend didn't meet my parents until well after a month of dating.
If she really cared about you as a person, she would respect your uncertainty and slow down because of your uneasiness.
2006-09-02 09:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by Claudia B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds wayyyyyy too fast to me, then again, I met my husband on the 8th of november, he told me he loved me on the 12th, we got engaged on the 25, and married a couple of months later, Now 4 years later with a little baby girl, we are very happy, and he is the best decision I ever made.
I knew my ex-husband for 4 years before we got married and we got divorced a couple of years later. I think if it is right it is right, and time does not matter. However, you are only 19, and that is too young for you to get serious, go out, have lots of fun, wait till you are much older and will take a relationship serious enough, than you wont have to ask the question either. You will just know
2006-09-02 09:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Cherie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is something wrong with visiting another town or going out. There is nothing wrong with visiting family members as you can decide yourself what to do.
But hey, moving in with her after two days, that seems extremely fast....way too fast if you ask me !!
2006-09-02 09:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by meiguanxi :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of coures..she should get to know u more and move from one stage to another.
In ur case she want from 1 to 20 ...she leap like hell u get u in love with her.
This is called desperate, and maybe she lost her frist husband like that.
it is best to remind her to slow down coz ur use to a slow relationship.
Or mayb she wants u to trust her so much she send you to met her parents so u don't think she is into you for sex or a whore...ect.
Tell her and let her know, women like to be told whats going on around them and they try to do there best.
2006-09-02 14:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! That is not a little too fast. That is way too fast. It will suffocate you. Distance immediately. Be soft with her when you do it though. Do not meet family.
2006-09-02 09:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!! You met her two days agoa nd she wants to move in with you? Meeting her family this early is kinda quick too.
2006-09-02 09:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely, she is moving WAYYYYYYY to fast
i mean you meet the girl 2 days ago and she already thinks yall gonna get married!
wow that's just to fast
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2006-09-02 10:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by The Hot Latin Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's moving way too fast, plus the age gap is a little large
2006-09-02 09:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats way to soon it sounds like you need to talk to her maybe she just never had any or much relationships so shes taking thing to faster level. well try to talk to her. she could allso be posesive
2006-09-02 09:55:41 · answer #10 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋