I have been seeing this guy on and off for almost 6 yrs now. We are always "Breaking Up" it seems every 4mnths and get back every 4 mtnhs.. I know weird. But Recently we were actually broke up for over a year and now we are back together. This time we actually made it pass 4mnths and going on9mnths now. Well 2 weeks ago he left for the weekend and didnt even tell me he was going I had no clue where he was. In my opinion when u love someone u give them respect and I didnt get it that weekend not even a text message. So should I loose him or over look it. He acted like I had nothing to be mad at but I think I do. DO U?
2006-09-02 02:36:24 · 12 answers · asked by Stacey The Birthday Girl! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to be very honest, it sounds like there might be someone else. Your relationship was on again and off again on a certain timetable, except this last time when it lasted a year. To be breaking up like that is a sign that you two can only last so long. Now for the weekend: He didn't tell you anything because he didn't want you to know what was going on. You have every right to be mad and leave him. I'm a single parent of 2 boys and their mother was the same way. There is something going on.
2006-09-02 02:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by hockey4eze 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After 6 years of breaking up and making up you should realize that this is not the type of guy that is going to make a long term commitment to you. You are someone he goes to when he wants attention. Because he feels that he is not really committed to you, he does feel he needs to tell you where he is at or when he is leaving. A total lack of respect.
2006-09-02 09:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I certainly would have asked you to go along, if the circumstances allowed me to, but if they didn't, I would have to allow you the respect of at least knowing that I was going somewhere. It sounds to me like you have a bad relationship there. You might want to consider another guy who will respect you better. I would, I could, but you have to call me or IM me!
2006-09-02 10:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 years of this on again off again? Forget this. Move on. It will never amount to anything. You've set a pattern and accepted this and he knows it. Marriage would end in divorce--that's a guarantee. Neither of you wants it, but neither of you has found anything else. 6 years---what else could you have done with your time? Ditch him. Loves you NOT.
2006-09-02 09:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by xxxxxxxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have to turn that little mysterious, innocent week end around and let him have a dose of his own thoughtlessness. Some of us have to learn the hard way.
2006-09-02 09:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be ticked. But, if you're just going to get back with him again, what's the point in breaking up at all?
2006-09-02 09:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by smashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course u have something to be mad at. it is crystal clear that he doesnt respect u and he might even be seeing someone else. its time u called it quits
2006-09-02 09:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by bee-day-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was going out of town and that is a huge deal. Please get rid of him! He has a lack of respect for you. One day you will find someone who respects your every wish and you will love the hell out of him!
2006-09-02 09:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would be angry there also
but it sounds like you 2 never really had a real stable relationship to start with
just talk to him and say you'd like to be informed of any plans he has like that beforehand
2006-09-02 09:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by Peace35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him about how u feel! remember that communication is the key to relationships : )!
voice your concerns so he knows that it upsets u and not to do it again next time!
2006-09-02 09:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by Coco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋