wat do u do if your family are pissing you off or bringing u down?

Answer 1

shoot them

Answer 2

My family never brings me down, I'm lucky in that regard. However, if my family starts to annoy me, I just remove myself from their presence, and enjoy a bit of peace and quiet. If the issue does not go away, i normally argue, but this is not helpful. When I calm down, I try to discuss matters in a neutral environment.
Most of the time it works.

Answer 3

if your family is putting you down then it is probably because they feel put down but not by you. But by someone or something else. Maybe its displaced anger, or maybe your not doing what they want you to do. Anyway, if you just look in the mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful and that you are rule your own destiny hopefully that will help you bring up your self-esteem. hope this helps. You can e-mail me if you want.

Answer 4

I just dont talk to them or go see them. My gramma is like this. Im not fat, I dont have big feet, and I dont have an acne problem. Yet, my gramma is evil and says stuff like:
'how much do you weigh?'
me: 'like 95 pounds' (im 12 yrs old)
and she was like 'omg shouldnt you weigh like 60 pounds omg'
and gave me a dirty look. She did the same thing with telling me I had big feet (im a size like 6-7) and then she was like 'omg you are getting lots of pimples take care of that please' and if I told her off, she would be crying. I just dont go down and see her anymore, and I had my dad talk to her for me. But yeah, its a long story to really in depth understand everything.

Answer 5

i have the same thing here, but it dont piss me off or bring me down, i've gotten where i just do give f--k and thats really not good,but i live in another world-- if i left they would have no resources and i know i can find somone else that would treat me okay but i 'd hate for these a--holes to suffer--Does this any sense??? i dont know-------they are all going outof town for the holiday and dont want me to come along but want me to stay here annd baby sit the dogs which i hate,but i'm the one who feeds ,water,and tend to them////i must be a slow learner i think i'll cash in and go to Mexico u wanna go w/me ??I've got enuff to live comfortable//i'm 61,retired and nice,a good cook

Answer 6

im going to assume your a level headed girl, that being said rise above it and dont listen them, as long as you know what your doing in your head, head being the key word, everything your doing is good, never think or make disicians with your heart it will lie to you every time, never let other people take they're insecurities out on you, be better than them and lead by example,

Answer 7

You need some time alone to work out if you really need this family of yours ! people do not need unnecessary hassle and you need to start to put yourself first. Go and have a break away from them and come to a decision that will be best for you............

Answer 8

the same as I♥MCR Forever i scream the house down, slam doors, play loud music and sneak out my bedroom window to meet up with m8s when i get grounded

Answer 9

Meet with a friend, eat choccie biccies and have a good old moan!!! Just make sure you repay the favour!

Answer 10

Kid you have probaly bought it on yourself by being so nice and you will find it hard to change them now. My advice is , dont loose your rag ,next time they start , just dont respond, when they see that they are getting nothing back they will find something else

Answer 11

my family sometimes do this to me, just remember they are only wanting the best for you, just not saying it in the best way!!!!
I always try and not see them for a bit if they do start on me as i can get angry at them then i feel bacd afterwards for snapping at them..... maybe trying to talk to them about it and say there not helping your situation, you appreciate there care and support but find there comments not very constructive..!