hi there~
well, i'm a 28 yrs old asian guy (let's say m from east asia) who has a gorgeous looking indian gf. we've been dating for about 4 years and we very much enjoy our sex life. (at least i do) the problem is she has never gotten there. -_- she said it feels great when we do, and there were times we felt that she got almost lost but she's not fully satisfied for sure.
i kinda think it's because i don't last long enough. the thing is i can last long when i control the pace; slowing down, stopping or pulling it our for a sec. but she said she's totally turned off everytime i slow down or stop. she wants me to keep moving as fast as i can without stoping! i was wondering...is it really possible for a guy to move like hell for a long time without stoping? should i start working out or something? -_-
2006-09-02 02:04:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The trick is prolonged foreplay. Play with her with your fingers, locate the G-spot right under the clit, and gently stroke it, until she begs for more. After that, u can then stick it in, and she would sooner want u out.
2006-09-02 02:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by simplythechamp 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People don't know this but women can have sexual proplems, that will prvent them from having orgasms or it hurting all the time, rather big or small. Women have to be into sex mentally more than physically. Working out will not help. You can train yourself when she is not around. While masterbating, when you are about to orgasm, stop, settle then start again and repeat. While having sex when you are about to ejaculate your sack will get tight, you can pull them down and that will help. You can also buy creams that will numb you and prolong intercourse. You can also try to not get in the sex mentally buy thinking of something else, I know it sounds funny but cout or say the alphabet (in your head LOL) Godd luck and I hope some of this is helpful.
2006-09-02 02:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anywhere from one second to all night ! Doing it fast all the time isn't that great. Have you ever heard the song ''They like it slow" by h-town? She needs to be more giving when it comes to your pleasure also. It has to be 50/50. She sounds like to me that she wants a "rough neck". That's OK occasionally but not every single time. If you do it fast every single time you're not gonna last very long.
2006-09-02 02:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by דְבוֹרָה Devorah 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it may be more her issue. You're trying the best you can. No, nobody (except porn stars maybe) can keep going and going like that for an extended period of time. She needs to relax, and she needs to find out different things that make her feel good... does she like when you go down on her, for instance? Yikes, this is getting too graphic... good luck!
2006-09-02 02:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by JP 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
use the rain coat or the finger and u must work out a lot or else u will be used to the fast pace after a long time
2006-09-02 02:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by SdM 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women love doggy style. Just pound away, reach around, and rub her clit. If the effort is too hard to sustain, then you need to exercise to build up your physical conditioning. Giving women orgasms is not a full time job, it's a career.
2006-09-02 02:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by three6ty 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You'll either have to control with your mind or use a desensitizing cream
2006-09-02 02:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a one pump chump to me......my suggestion to you would be lick it before you stick it. You can get her off first and then she won't be so mad you can't last long
2006-09-02 02:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
more foreplay! it's not about going fast the whole time. there are other ways to keep her stimulated. good luck
2006-09-02 02:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by cramner25 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
honestly use your finger if she doesnt mind while you take a break and to keep the feeling going for her
2006-09-02 02:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by jon k 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋