If u had to choose between ur ex who has a girlfriend but still wants u and u r totally in love with or a mate who u think is cute and sweet but u don't think u can imagine yourself with cuz u have feelins for ur ex, who would u choose?
2006-09-02 01:59:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shakespeare would have said "Get thee to a nunnery!" It was a good refuge in them days ... you could always become unholy again later.
I would say let it ride a little ... be free for a bit. Maybe you will get over your ex and maybe he'll get over you ... then again, maybe not. It sometimes happens that way. Try being human, not a bloody rabbit, hehe!
2006-09-02 08:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make him choose you or her? If he really wants you in all the right ways, his choice will be easy. Don't play second best or set yourself for disappointment for anyone no matter how much you care about them because you are worth way more than that. I would first resolve the issues between you and your ex because say if you did go out with this nice guy, you might hurt him if your ex decides to be with you again. It is not fair to the next person to enter a relationship and your heart is in another place. I would be honest with the nice guy and tell him that you are not trying to rush in a relationship because you still have deep feelings for your ex so even if things don't work out, it is not like you didn't tell him from the beginning and he knew what he was getting himself into. Good luck. I hope everything works out for you.
2006-09-02 09:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time to break out a pencil and paper dear, What was the reason your ex became your ex? Time has faded your memory but I am sure if you sit down and think you will remember what it was. If you can't see yourself with the new guy then see yourself out of it and start shopping, so to speak. Just to let you know you are getting advice from a guy. Anyway I would sit down by yourself and do some thinking. Good luck.
2006-09-02 10:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose "c", none of the above. If, you ex wanted you, he would not have a gf. If you can't see yourself with this other man, it would never last. Either way it's a dead end.
Find someone who thinks you are all there is to life. Don't settle, divorce courts are full of people that settled for second best.
2006-09-02 09:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by rikv77 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I once let an ex ruin a great relationship only to find later that she had no interest in having me back. she just didn't want to see me happy with someone new. from my experience, I'd say give the new guy a try or keep looking. good luck and I hope you find happiness
2006-09-02 09:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by straightandstalwart141 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nobody. I would start over with someone available. You will get over your ex, who as a girlfriend, eventually.
Been there, done that.
2006-09-02 09:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by Katrina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Neither!!! come on!!! You need to take a step back and see the situation, and give it some time. What would you say to a good friend who asked you this question... don't abandon your common sense. If it's meant to be, it will be! :o)
2006-09-02 09:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your question doesn't make sense. the bottom line is an ex is an ex for some reason. if you have another relationship, stay with that one.
2006-09-02 09:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would choose the one i love.. and it looks that you love your ex so i think that you should go back with him and let the other guy find someone that will love him cause you belong somewhere else to your ex.....go back
2006-09-02 09:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you answered your own question, you love your ex -- he wants to be with you, && if he honestly does love you, he'll dump his ex ((&& prove it to you)) you should go for your ex, but first let him dump his girlfriend.
you need to tell the boy that likes you, that you like him as a friend && be gentle about it, tell him you still have strong feelings for your ex && it wouldnt be fair to him or you, if ya'll dated && that maybe u can be friends instead :D
2006-09-02 09:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by Xavier's Mommy ツ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋