2006-09-02 01:46:17 · 26 answers · asked by jock 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hA HA NO Im in a long term relationship,we are 100% devoted to one another,I signed him up for online dating.It is a laugh and a way of meeting people online.It's in my eyes only cheating if you have sexual relations with another person.Online fun and flirting don't count.Chill out.I flirt with men on here,my partner knows it is just a bit of fun.Take care
2006-09-02 01:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The answer is, he has not cheated yet.
There are many reasons that people go into this sites. Then again we don't need to go there to make friends, unless there is a need or urgency. We all got school friends, block friends and many more. Singaporeans naturally have lots of friends. Walk into a disco and everyone is ya fren because everyone there with a common interest. And that is to have fun.
The site already speaks for itself (dating) and if anyone were to be in a relationship should not visit such sites. The common interest for such sites I thing everyone should know by now. Having a relationship also means being caring so if you care for your boyfren or galfren, you got to be practical and do the rite thing.
I got a fren who says being in a red light district is not wrong as long you don't engage. What I thing is that being there is already wrong. Why the need to be there unless you have a very good fantastic reason other wise stay out of trouble which will affect your relationship. because the country is sooo big soooo why the need to even be there. Dating sites to make frens...come on.
2006-09-02 02:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by White Wings F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because why else would he subscribe? If he hasn't cheated already then he definitely has the intention in mind. There has to be a purpose to what he is doing, you don't just subscribe to a dating website for the fun of it. I would be very hurt, upset and angry if it were me in a relationship with this partner and I would be questioning the committment they had to the relationship with me. If I was in your shoes I would confront your partner as to what the hell they are playing at and where you stand in all this. Good luck.
2006-09-02 03:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is something wrong with the relationship if one person is looking to meet others. It may not be cheating really but it is, on the road to it. Best advice: talk to your partner and figure out what's going on and try to solve it.
Good luck.
2006-09-02 02:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by snowfoxx71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have an open relationship? If not, this signals the partner is looking elsewhere for whatever they need. It's not cheating per se, if they haven't actually met/slept with anyone else, but personally, I'd be worried. Talk.
2006-09-02 01:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by nert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're even asking suggests you think something is up.
If he's subscribing for a laugh fair enough, but to be honest I say you've a got a cheat on your hands.
If it happened to me I'd kick him into touch without a seconds thought.
2006-09-02 01:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is a form of cheating. Why do people sign up to a "dating website" as the title suggests you are looking for people to date.
2006-09-02 03:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by radiant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say no. because some people subscribe to those just to make new friends. i used to use a dating website to take online quizzes but i wasn't there to meet anyone. it depends on the situation i guess. because i don't think anyone in their right mind would pay money for an online dating website if they didn't want to use it and meet someone. i dunno. tough call. you two should talk about it and get it resolved. i wouldn't want my boyfriend subscribing to a dating website. that would make me feel like i'm not good enough.
2006-09-02 01:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by cramner25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really cheating unless he starts talking to the girls from there. But I would definately ask him why he feels the need to look for other women.
2006-09-02 01:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...sort of. If you are happy with your partner you wouldnt be subscribing to such sites becasuse it shows that there is a lack of commitment and that you ae not contented.
2006-09-02 01:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by helpme! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋