me and my boyfriend fight a lot so......
2006-09-02 01:33:54 · 19 answers · asked by aarti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
arguments come with all types of relationship .. regardless if you are in love or not. Just keep it respectful and not abusive emotionally or physically.
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2006-09-02 01:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fighting NO! Disagreements, yes. None of us are going to see eye to eye all the time. But, in love there is compromise and that is important. Keep the lines of communication open, be kind, loving, and remember it's not about always being right. There are times, you just have to agree to disagree. We will all have disagreements, but it is how you come out o them that really matters.... so long as you are still holding hands at the end you're doing good. There should never be a physical fighting, or mental abuse in a loving relationship. TALK THINGS OUT! Be happy.
2006-09-02 08:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by getrd2go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly not if you are both mature adults. Only kids and adults who have not grown up fight, when supposedly in love with each other.
For two people to get together, there's bound to be differences in opinions, views and values. Its how these differences are handled that matter. For long term relationships to last, they must respect each others' differences. There's no need to fight over these differences! Fighting is definitely out for loving couples.
2006-09-02 08:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Unfortunately.
But it doesnt mean that your BF hates you, its just shows that you both are beuatifully human and that youre normal people. Life could never be smooth sailing all the way.. There are things that makes life worth living for and one of them is having a fight, hehehe.. but it depends on what you fight about. Either way, it gives both of you to step aside and check on your own personal aspects..and look inward.
2006-09-02 08:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by moe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I think it must be part of love. I don't think it would be true love if it was always smooth sailing. Or so they say anyway. The making up is good though but, like you, I just don't like fighting and causing unecessary stress!
2006-09-02 08:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mister Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is part of the process of working the way to level ground...getting rid of the barriers that that keep you from moving forward in the relationship. But balance is needed too
2006-09-02 08:41:10 · answer #6 · answered by Carpe Diem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think so, we do too... a lot... but i know it's part of getting to know more about us... i hope the fights you're talking about were of different issues.. because if it's always on the same issue then you better think it over...
2006-09-02 09:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by i really love him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To my knowledge NO. Only once my husband did fight with me .. And after he came to be normal ... But even it's almost 6 years i couldn't over it.
2006-09-02 08:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by mswathi1025 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not what happens when things are good ..love is how you treat each other during bad times .. its understanding each other ... fighting (hm-mm) nope! are you just sticking around for the sex ? life is to short waste it on hate .. doping off the key Lee .. making new plans Stan .. set yourself free...
2006-09-02 09:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know what trully speaking i have had my own experience about it.. u always fought with one you care n love, the more you love that person more u fight with him/her may i has something to do with ur expectations........
2006-09-02 08:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by hot_millions04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋