I have a good job, to bad only one person makes my live miserable. Like always taking the lead in conversation when a custumor comes in, or sometimes talking (kinda) childish when no others are around, you know nothing wich leaves traces.... My superiour knows this giving my the hint this collegue beiing very unsure, but I like only to be accepted as collegue and not to start a little battle who's best at teesing.people what should I do? it begins to eat my system. people what's the best solution here?
2006-09-02 01:30:47 · 5 answers · asked by can'tknowitall 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Well...believe it or not...the Bible tells us to do good to those that do things like that to us...of course you don't want to lose your job for a person like that who is going to just do it to the next guy too...He/she. obviously knows that they have 'gotten' to you...You could try to really compliment the person in front of people everytime they cut in, and tell them how great of help they are...the challenge is, to make an enemy into an allie...and forgive the person...and let God lead the way .Good luck
2006-09-02 01:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should quit, but not because of the bad behavior of the co-worker. The reason you shouldn't be there is because your boss knows about this person's behavior and doesn't stop it. If your superior is not going to make everyone work together as a supportive team, nobody will be successful in the long run.
2006-09-02 08:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by hquin_tset 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The big question would be....how much to you like your job? If you really like your job don't let anyone change that. This person is just like the school jard bully, don't let them get the best of you. If you like your job and are good at it...stay with it...you will win in the long run.
2006-09-02 08:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Aimee B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are going to find one person in very job, that you don't like or they don't like you. This person is Jealous of you, and is trying to get you to quit. Don't give him the satisfaction of that. Just act as if he's a pesty little fly, and brush him off.
2006-09-02 08:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by spiritwalker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're unhappy, then yes, change jobs. Otherwise, try not to let one person control you like that. If 1 person is making you so miserable that you'd consider quitting, then they are controlling you.
2006-09-02 08:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋