Can someone give me good advice on how to attract females please!?

Question

I really wish i had a girlfriend right now but i'm totally hopeless with women. Any tips would be awesome! Cheers.

Answer 1

To attract females....
1. ALWAYS smell good.
2. Brush your teeth keep them nice and have good breath
3. Carry yourself well (dress nice, be showered)
4. Be shy but not withdrawn
5. Have confidence
6. Have & job or go to school.....need a future plan
7. Be respectful
8. Dont be TOOOO nice, ladies like a little bit of a bad boy
9. The stupid, smallest things matter & count to a lady, so pay attention to her....what she says listens to, focus on her, be considerate. (example: If it is hot out and you run to the store bring her an ice cream or cold drink)
10. Make her feel like she is the only woman in the world to you, yeah there are other women but she has your full undivided attention.....the others are non-existent to you.
11. Figure out what she hates about herself and make it your favorite thing about her, constantly compliment her.
I can keep going, but this is a start! GOOD LUCK!

Answer 2

After she turned 14? How old is she now? How old are you? Well, anyways, just because she was your friend doesn't mean it can't become something more. Sometimes the best relationships start from friendships. But if you get in a messy break up it could sacrifice the friendship as well. My advice is that you ease how you feel onto her. Give a little bit, see if she gives back, then give a little more hints, see is she gives more back... It's a game, you give a little more, working up to when you ask her to date you. Oh, and don't do anything sexual with her until you're both at the age for that. But I'm sure you know that.

Answer 3

It's simple. Care, but don't care that much. Don't be afraid to say hi and introduce yourself - I've never got permanently injured from walking up to a girl and introducing myself. Say anything slightly witty but self-effacing. Now, the conversation is no longer about you. If you've got her name and a smile, she's yours... it's time to find out about her. You might not want her, after all. Ask relevant questions to find out who she is... what she likes, etc. Be casually interested, not desperate. Get her interested, then excuse yourself and walk away. Tell her you'd love to hear more about, well whatever she was talking about, and ask if she'd be interested in _______ (you figure that out, based on the timing and the girl). Take her number, give her a quick kiss on the cheek, and walk away without looking back.

Warning: you may only get a date with one out of five beautiful women with this approach, but the other four may just give you some good insights on both women and on yourself along the way. Have fun. Wear protection.

Answer 4

Think and act positively. Think good things about yourself. Remind yourself of your positive qualities. Girls like a bloke who is at ease with himself, and confident.

Be generous - but not over the top
Cultivate your sense of humour - make them laugh
Dress well
Make sure you a presentable (clean teeth, nice scents are very attractive)

Dance well - blokes who can dance are cool
Take an interest in THEM and what they get up to

Be genuine and good natured - creeps and lechers don't get very far.

Maybe go to some different places to where you have been going. You will meet different types of girls there, and they might be more your type. They might be interestED in you, instead of it just being the other way round.

Treat them well - but only if they appreciate your efforts. (If they don't then they are just using you, and you deserve better girls than these).

If you are having confidence problems, try picturing the 'best case scenario' in your mind. Picture yourself meeting some quality girls, picture yourself talking and feeling very confident, picture yourselves getting on famously, picture yourself actually 'getting the girl.' You'd surprised how well this works.

Be cheerful and enjoy yourself when you are out. Nothing more repellent than a miserable sod. Nothing more attractive than someone who is having a good time and has a smile on their face.

But most important of all BE YOURSELF (or rather, the positive side of yourself). Sounds like a cliche but it's perfectly true. It's much easier to be who you normally are, and girls are pretty good at seeing straight through a 'disguise.' They can spot a fake a mile off! When girls are attracted to you,it is because they like you for who YOU are.

My most successful dates have been when I was just being who I normally am, acting positively and having a good time. I found that quality girls were taking an interest for no greater reason than for me being myself, and everything happened so easily.

Hope this helps. Good luck man. There are plenty of girls out there who will be interested in you, just give them signals.

Answer 5

Before you can have a girlfriend, you must first be a friend. That should take some pressure off. Developing a relationship like that takes time. You don't say how old you are, so that can effect where you meet women. If you're in school, join a club or sport where friendship relationships build gradually. If you're older, same thing applies - get involved in activities you are interested in so you will have that in common with other women. Or if you go to church, you can get involved there.

All the best to you my friend. Just be yourself and be a friend. Over time, the right person will get to know you and fall in love!

Answer 6

Confidence is the key!! If you appear confident and sure of yourself and witty! not arrogant or sleazy you stand a great chance. If you lack confidence girls pick up on it. If you don't try you don't get! Just have a go, next time you like a girl, jump right in at the deep end and ask her out for a drink.

Answer 7

Learn to like yourself more and just be open with women. We love honesty and boldness! Be more confident in yourself by exploring the way you feel about you and sort those feelings out. It will work if you put time into it! You will feel more assured of yourself and girls like that.

Answer 8

well you can have me if you like.

Well my answer is just be your self and you can't wrong do not be a show off and behave like a prat and remember treat others especially women the way you want to be treatedf yes but remember MUTUAL RESPECT

Answer 9

Right, one thing which always gets a relationship going is a good conversation. try and remember that girls like to talk about themselves. Good Luck!

Answer 10

BE YOURSELF

if girls arent attracted to u when your being yourslef....THEN THOSE ARE JUS THE WRONG TYPE OF GIRLS

try surrounding yourself with different people....you might be suprised at ur results....
althou im not promisin instant changes...