2006-09-02 00:52:19 · 20 answers · asked by Nadini 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He ended it and I don't really know anymore than that.
2006-09-02 01:53:37 · update #1
and you talk to strangers about this..??
2006-09-02 00:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm sorry for you. I know it really feels like your heart is breaking.
There is not to much I can tell you about how to cope with it except try to keep busy with something that really interests you.
Keep it in mind when things get bad that males and females have been going through this since the beginning of time. They've survived it and you will too. Eventually the pain will lessen until one day it will occur to you that you haven't thought about it for quite some time.
When our love carries us to the peaks, we know there's a valley below but we don't like to think about it, but it still doesn't prevent us from going to the peak. When we are in the valley we don't think we will ever reach a peak again or even want to, but we do.
All the best.
2006-09-02 08:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah u can cope with it by not staying home alone and go to say anything about ur feeling and get their advance go through them and see if is meaningful to u but i will tell u don't alone at all or else u will do want u don't want to do. The only u should be alone is when u want to sleep so u could think about the advice u get that day. That all period.
2006-09-05 21:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by tomapepe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very painful moment , you must go out from the place you live for a couple of days after taking annual leaves etc , start morning jogging / light exercises and meditation . Find some old family relations and friends to spend some time talking to them .Memories will fades away within no time .
2006-09-02 07:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u truly love that guy, why did u break up with him ? If there is no second chances for both of you. Don't just sit there and cry instead stand up and face the world around you. Don't let him ruin ur life..
2006-09-02 08:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Krizzy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to take this time to 'mourn' your loss.
Cry, wallow, listen to sad songs, moan to your friends, get drunk.
You will feel better, it will just take time.
DONT - phone him , leave messages or silent calls. DONT get drunk & jump into bed with an ugly guy! You will only regret it & feel crap.
In time you can think about why you split & see wether it was the right decision, you dont say if it was your decision or not & the reason.
2006-09-02 08:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by justine m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is a very strange thing - its something you can't just turn on and off - Distract yourself - go on holiday - even if its just to the next town, just somewhere you can have time to think about you, instead of everyone else..
Have fun!
2006-09-02 08:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by want_to_explore_life 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry you are going thru such a hard time. Sing the lyrics "If you don't want to love me, baby, somebody else will, somebody else will love me better." Sing this song. Feel this song. Believe these lyrics. Good luck. Somebody better will be along.
2006-09-02 08:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by Christine S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi miss, you told that you loved a guy but it reflects you still love him. My sincere advice would have been if we have met before that never fall in love as such first you should have known the guy. But know to forget the person I would like you to choose someone who cares for you or think about someone else. Try it please.
2006-09-02 07:57:56 · answer #9 · answered by anurag_love 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh big hug first!!.
Stay strong, stay away from him and where he will be and go where possible. Lean hard on your family and friends, thats what they are there for.
Go out as often as you can to distract your mind from the loneyness.
Put anything that reminds you of him in a box and put it out of sight, you know its there but it wont be staring you in the face.
Be strong and possitive.
Good luck honey
2006-09-02 08:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by doodlepol 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would give him a week and if he hasn't called you and told you why then call him and ask why. If he gives you the answer then deal with it and go on with your life and learn from this. If he doesn't give you one then the problem was him not you. Good luck.
2006-09-02 09:48:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋