i was with this girl for about 3 years everything was fine until one day she just started ingnoring me, we had arguments but what couple doesnt? then all of sudden i asked her if she over me she said yeah.. like in 2 weeks, it hurt so much i didnt even know what was going on. now i cant sleep or eat, i need help how do i make this better? i want to talk to her so bad but she ignores me what should i do? im 17 im going to college and i need to concentrate but i cant its always in my head, i need help quick
2006-09-02 00:03:46 · 13 answers · asked by ChalkBoard 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to give it time. i know this my sound cliche ...but time will heel your heart.
2006-09-02 00:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something similar had just recently happened to me after 2 and a half years. We broke up cuz she couldn't be real with me,it was all lies, and 2 weeks later she met this dude at the club, and then went to Vegas a week later and married him. He lives in CA, and was here on military leave, but when he went back to CA from Vegas, she came back here. Now she cant afford to get to CA to be with her new husband, he wont send her a plane ticket, now all of the sudden shes telling my voice mail how much she loves me. HA! You got a HUSBAND now B!! To make a long story short, don't worry about her(your just feeding the fire), make her feel unwanted, DON'T eat out of HER HAND!! MAN up, its all about YOU now, and it should be from NOW on. DON'T let her ruin you, or especially mess up you education! Use this as a learning experience, make her realize what she GAVE UP. Trust me! Check out my blast to see what helps me laugh at my X-girlfriend. If you give in to her you have LOST, and she has you right where she wants you!!
DON'T get upset, get even!! SUCCESS IS THE GREATEST REVENGE!!!
2006-09-02 08:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dewkeystank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 17 and have been in relationship with your friend for three years. Now you have college in front of you and this is distracting you.
You don't understand why she is not talking with you. I am guessing that you are confused, hurt and lonely.
First, you might write to her and tell her how you feel and how her actions are affecting you. You might ask her what she thinks the issues are.
In reality, you are both young and life will change in so many ways for you both. College is your future. Deal with this present issue and try to move on.
Peter
2006-09-02 07:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by Peter H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having been there and done that....it is going to take a long time. look, you're 17 & trust me when I say you'll look back on this and laugh about how young and stupid you were. go to college, make friends, and have fun (even if you have to pretend for awhile). it is going to take a long time, just be good to yourself, acknowledge your feelings, and avoid her like the plague (this is in your best interest). it sucks, it hurts, you want her back, you can't sleep.....most of us have all been there and survived - so can you. good luck with school!
2006-09-02 07:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by rnoemt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried ASKING her WHY she wasn't interested in you anymore. I mean, have you noticed any change in her behaviour over the past three years you were together? You should ALWAYS try to find out the REASON for a breakup. Then maybe you will get over it.
2006-09-02 07:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jeanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to love kid..... she squashed your heart like a ripe cannelope on the city street. She is a man eater and she is done with you....
move along.... there is nothing too see here, just a pile of jello that was once a strong young man...
Happens too us all... you will live.... ahhhh...memories...
2006-09-02 07:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think very hard about what you were doing before you met her? What is it that you really enjoy doing? Then go do that!
2006-09-02 07:14:08 · answer #7 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get over some one who broke your heart is to get under another if you know what i am saying (wink)
2006-09-02 07:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by lost one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU WILL GET OVER THIS.
TRUST ME.
TIME IS A GREAT HEALER, AND I KNOW THAT FOR A FACT.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-02 07:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by blunt_yet_sharp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just join the gym...play some sports..it works..
2006-09-02 07:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by mushirocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋