me and my bf were not getting along very well and i decied to cheat on him and now i broke up with the person that i was cheating on him with and told him about it and now he told his friends and they keep on bugging me about it and my bf isn't going to do anything about it.
2006-09-01 22:39:14 · 28 answers · asked by KaRiSsA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you created your own bed, now you must lie in it. how do you expect your bf to come to your aid, when he cannot even trust you. this is an issue you have to resolve fro yourself, between all parties.
2006-09-01 22:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by tinyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?
You expect your bf, that you cheated on, to stick up for you from his friends when they bug you about cheating on him. Talk about wanting her cake and eating it too. Don't you think that cheating on your bf would of bothered him, even just a little. What do you think it would of done to his self esteem? Why should he give a rats *** what happens to you from now on. The fact that he is even talking to you is a blessing on your part. What you should do is the decent thing and get out of his life and let him meet someone who will treat him with some respect.
2006-09-02 05:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really are you surprised, they're his friends, they want to look after him.
He got hurt when you cheated on him, they want to protect him.
Think you're learning the hard way, but you reap what you sow.
You have probably, I hope discovered that cheating doesn't work. Might be better for you to get out of ths relationship, move on and find new friends, because the old ones will relate to you as a cheater. If they think of you like that, you might just do it again.
Work out what sort of boy you want and do what you need to do and be how you need to be to get him. Cheater probably doesn't appear on the list. If it doesn't appear on the list don't do it.
Being patient and responsible probably does. Maybe you ought to try these things out !!
Good luck, do yourself a favour do things that make life work !!!!
2006-09-02 06:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't get along then do the decent thing and tell him its over;cheating is just wrong,imagine if he was cheating on you how you would feel,if it doesn't annoy him knowing that you cheated on him then he does not have feelings for you anyway !
Be honest and good luck !
2006-09-02 05:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by any 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you feel like a right b i t c h! But surely if he knows then you are no longer together? If you are then you have some sucking up to do. Maybe this just shows you how much of a decent boyfriend you have. Its his fault also for not producing the goods.
2006-09-02 05:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by Coley61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has you bf forgiven you? if yes thenit doesnt matter what his friends say. If no he probably never will and likes that fact that his frinds bug you , so you should probably just move on with you life and not cheat in the future
2006-09-02 05:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't eat your cake and have it girl. I'll advice you to settle down and sort yourself out. You don't expect the guy you cheated on to help you out of this problem.
You need to be trustworthy and learn to be faithful. Right now I'll advice you to stay off this guy for now and other guys too untill you sort yourself out okay!
2006-09-02 05:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by Gifted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say this becuse usually it is the guys fault . but you made the bed now it time for you to sleep in it . thet will stop if you dont show them it bother you . i bet if you pick out another one of his freinds he would be more than happy to go out e/ you if you do that you then dump him and you get the last laugh maybe . or just wait
2006-09-02 05:47:51 · answer #8 · answered by k dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cheated on your boyfriend then you don't really care about him. Maybe it's time you ended the relationship so that you both can move on.
2006-09-02 05:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by Stuart M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you in all honesty think that this situation is unfair? I think you are lucky to still have your bf and my advice to him is listen to his mates and leave you where you are, after all what will you do if he really upsets you, marry his dad.
2006-09-02 07:11:21 · answer #10 · answered by ray c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋