2006-09-01 22:29:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it's good that you are mature enough to want to fulfill you parents desires.if u are indian there are many things that come under that....not just career but even in marrying the person of your parents choice...knowing what the indian society is all about.if u are willing to do all that, you will ahve to focus only on your career right now till you reach your goals....and also pray that your life partner is sombody worth spending the rest of your life with.you should share this with your parents regarding the type of partner you'd prefer.goodluck!
2006-09-01 22:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out with what you **** with, you sound really smart. Still, ritual magick is about initiation. It's not about cursing people and playing with archons or demonic forces. Ever think about the chance that these forces you think your controlling with these exorcisms such as the 72 spirits of the shemhamphorasch are just going along with what your saying? Then when you least expect it, these archetypes/spirits will turn on you? That's the nature of black magick. I'm not saying don't ever use it, just that the words and rituals used are only as effective as how high the magician is initiated into the specific magickal current. Join a magickal order or get some material on initiation on your chosen current. Also your young, all young aspiring occultists choose the left hand path and think dark things are "cool". I like dark imagery, I'm a big Baphomet fan and use the goetia and work with darker forces. Yet, I'm an initiate of the A.'.A.'. and practice Theurgical magick as well as being a brother of the right hand path. As you get older you'll probably start understanding that the real magick is contained in things not as dark. Realize that the majority of people who are satanists and strict followers of the left hand path aren't true magicians. They do it to look hard because they probably got made fun of in high school and think that no one will mess with them if they scare everyone. Ha ha but seriously using magick to get laid, hurt people and stroke your ego about how powerful you are isn't true magick. If you want some advice beyond this let me know. Oh also learn some Hermetic Qabbalah, it's invaluable to anyone who wants to actually understand and use magick rather than be used by it.
2016-03-17 06:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF your parents are like most parents, their biggest desire is for you to be happy! If that's the case with your parents, then YES you can fulfill their desire!
Good Luck - dream big!
2006-09-01 22:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by clueless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to, you can.
What do you really want? Are their desires the same as yours? Will fulfilling their desires also fulfill yours? If by achieving your desires, you also fulfill theirs, it would be ideal. I am sure, one of their main desires is to see you succeeding. Therefore, if you succeed in life, then their desires are fulfilled. So go on and make a success of your life.
2006-09-01 22:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are on dangerous ground. There is nothing wrong with wanting to make your parents happy and proud but this should not come at the expense of your own aspirations. If you do everything that your parents want you may end up living a life that you do not want. If your parents truly love and respect you then they will love you regartdless of profession, etc.
2006-09-01 22:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Just John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to fulfill your parents desire? What about YOUR desires hunny? I'm 35 and I spent 32 of my last years trying my hardest to make my parents happy. Didn't happen!!! You know why? Because I wasn't happy. I started the career they wanted for me, if they suggested something I rushed out and did it, I was constantly searching for their approval and by god let me tell you it was SO bloody draining!! There comes a point in your life when you have to let go of your parents. Of course they want the best for you and I don't know how old you are or where you live (because this can make a HUGE difference) but one day you will realise that the main thing they want is for you to be happy. Babe - to our parents we are ALWAYS going to be kids. I doesn't matter how old we are. I was talking to my Mum about this same topic the other day and she made me realise that they don't care what i choose to do in life as long as I'm happy. It honestly doesn't matter!! Your parents are always going to want you to be the best you can be but you have to choose for yourself what it is YOU want to do. Unfortunately a lot of parents project their long-lost dreams onto their children not realising that those kids don't want the same thing. There is absolutely nothing wrong with parental advice and i find myself asking for my parents advice more and more the older I get!! But advice is just that - advice. It doesn't mean you have to take that advice, just use it to get another perspective on something you may not have thought of. As long as you are happy, your parents will be happy. Mind you taking drugs might make you happy - this is NOT something that will make your parents happy!! Lol!! Be successful doing something that gives you satisfaction and most of all let your parents know that you appreciate all of the advice and ideas they give you, but ask them if they would be disappointed if you do something that you want to do - not what they want you to do. This will help them still feel involved in your life but you are letting them know that you are going to be choosing what you do with it - not them. Stay true to number 1 because you are the one who has to get up every day and go and live the life you choose - not your mum and dad. Best of luck babe and I'm sorry if my answer is a bit rambling!! Have a great weekend and good luck in life - whatever YOU choose to do!! :)
2006-09-01 23:04:30 · answer #6 · answered by ellyfantastic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can and you should. You should obey and respect your parents. You can do things which you want that your children will do for you when you grow old.
You should never talk to them in high tone. Talk to them politely and take care of there every need. Think of how they have take cared of you when you were a child.
So i must say, they deserve you care and respect. Its ur duty to fulfill their desire.
2006-09-01 22:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by Shahid Shafqat 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If your parents are demanding, then you can NEVER fulfill their desires. Trust me on this, I know what it is like.
2006-09-01 22:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice thinking
Just respect them & keep there care
parents demend nothing but your attention & love
so keep there care & never disatisfy them
2006-09-01 22:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by Gursimran Singh K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its their own opinions.... if u think ur parents desires r right then there is nothing in doing good for the parents...
parents r the most lovable ones in everyone's life... so move forward......
2006-09-02 16:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋