My little cousin likes me what should I do?

Question

Am 14 and she is 10 and she just has 2 big of a crush on me she is alwes asking to come over and when she is she acts wierd and trys to touch me sometimes and I just dont want to go around telling every one about it and stuff

I do ignore her and in no ******* way would I ever do something stupid like what yours saying SHES MY COUSIN!

Answer 1

HAVE A SERIOUS TALK WITH HER

TELL HER IT IS WRONG AND FOR BOTH OF YOU TO GET ALONG LIKE COUSINS WHICH IS ALMOST LIKE BROTHERS/SISTERS

Answer 2

I think you just ignore it....she is only 10 and she probably don't know what she is doing. She is young...and may be she is just sweet and like you as a brother. Dont give it a malice.
And don't solve this problem on your own. Both of you have parents or relatives. May be you can share this problem to your mother or father...and ask them may be to talk to your girl cousin. And ask them what you should act when your cousin is around. But for me...just be normal....it is normal for a growing girl to have a crush sometimes...even she/he is related to the girl/boy....because when they grow up..it will change.

Answer 3

She's only 10. She'll grow out of it. Plus, you should be liking girls your own age anyway, so nothing to worry about there about you doing somethign stupid. Be her friend, she's your cousin and that's cool that she admires you so much because when you all grow up and are married and old, you two will probably remain good friends, sort of like brother and sister, which is how close cousins usually feel about one another.

Answer 4

I had that same problem when my entire family found out i was adopted, i couldn't get my niece or my other cousins to lay off. here's what i did:
1) tell them your with someone, (white lie)
2) ask them why they like you, and convince them your completely opposite.
3) I'd say try ignoring but that never works. try teasing them a little, but not insult them completely.
4) tell her she's too young, and you only like older girls, that should get her off your back for a little while.
5) act like a monster to scare them off (hey she was 5 anything could scare her.)
6) if she is religious you could play the "god doesn't like that" thing will always scare them off.
7)last but not least, try telling your parent's that she's been a little grabby, and you feel uncomfortable about having her around.

If none of that works then I'm sorry mate, she's just too persistent about it. and if your perant's arnt doing anything about it, then you really have to consider that maybe she's not your cousin >.>;;

Answer 5

she looks up to u becuz u are older and she probably thinks ur really cool. have a talk with her...tell her that cousins shouldn't like each other that way.

or find someone else for her to crush on. someone that acts like you. lol

Answer 6

listen,shes growing up fast.shes not realising how stupid it is.she like a sister to you.always talk like a mature person to her.no fun and games with her for the timebeing,be very serious wen u tlak with her.again if does the same,look at her face and tell her very vey clearly,"look ure a sister to me and im ure brother.we will always be like that.and wat shes doing is very wrong.if u keep doing this i will have to ignore you and tell ure parents".i think it mite work.tyr it once.tke cre

Answer 7

just try to ignore her...stay far away from her before u do something stupid

Answer 8

well,shes just a kid,its just that she looks upto you as her hero....ignore it and dont ever get any closer relating to wrong terms!!

Answer 9

She'll grow out of that....hey are yall from Kentucky?

Answer 10

Good to know your feelings. It is important to explain to her. You could do it or her elder sister if any.