2006-09-01 22:05:55 · 11 answers · asked by nukesavaminlakers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
According to your question you said you still love your husband .. why not find ways to improve the relationship them - seek counseling. There isn't anything that a couple can not face and conquer but only if they are both willing to work to fix it.
With that said .. I left my first husband who is the father of my 1st child. I left because no matter what we did there was no way to fix our situation .. we lack communication, trust, friendship, etc etc. I had found that our bad marriage was actually effecting my son. Leaving the marriage was the best thing I have ever done. Jared is now in a more stable environment and he knows that he has two loving parents that love him deeply
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-01 22:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It begs alot of questions why do that unless ur not working but if ur then move on u may meet somebody who is goner love and respect u the way u wd wish but it is not health sharing well knowing u dont love the dud,or try talking and remember the things that made u happy b4
2006-09-01 22:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you love the children, and you still love lthe guy,
I hope you stay in the relationship, but do not give up on your own values, In other words, don't stay, and suffer,
Please make sure you are making progress iin the relationship, and you are not just kicking a dead horse,,
IF YOU BELIEVE IN GOD, AND HAVE FAITH IN JESUS, INCLUDE GOD IN ALL YOUR CHOICES, AND THIS WLL HELP YOUR LIFE IN GREAT WAYS,
Good luck
2006-09-01 22:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By my opinion, I wouldn't stay with the guy just for children because children have ears and emotions too so they are like sponges- they take it all in themselves and act like that in a future! Don't argue in front of them and let them know You don't like each other anymore.
2006-09-01 22:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by little 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...
Love someone but can't be with them.!!!
I stayed in a rapidly deteriorating relationship for my daughter.
Held on all I could... counselling didn't keep us together... She divorced me. I got custody of my daughter.
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It's better now after divorce... >> I don't want to be around my ex. so I don't the best that I can.
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I've learn ed that loving someone doesn't necessarily mean that I can be with them.
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2006-09-01 22:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, it is not wrong to stay in a relationship just for the children and specially if u still love the guy????? what's wrong with you??? or maybe i am reading it wrong, huh!!!!!
2006-09-01 22:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by Rynald 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm wondering the same thing. I kinda got the same prob
2006-09-01 22:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT/NO DON'T STAY JUST FOR THE KIDS / AND YOU STILL LOVE HIM. THEN WHATS THE DEAL.STAY FOR BOTH OF THEM.
2006-09-01 22:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by tia c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to keep your marriage intact especially if there are kids sounds admirable to me.
2006-09-01 22:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe
2006-09-01 23:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋