My boyfriend blows me off for his friends, like yesterday when we were on a date for the first time in 3 months- we went to the amousment park, and he ended up hanging out with his friends, and he just told me to go look around. I was so mad! Shouldn't I be? And also- when he decides to 'go out' he doesn't ask me to come along, and he just asks his friends. Sometimes- he doesn't even tell me what he's going to do, I don't mind- but it just makes me feel like he doesn't want me to go with him. Also- when we go out and a girl looks at him, he'll always glance back. Even when I'm talking to him! He'll look at me- then to someone else, and then I'll say something and he'll just be like, "uh-huh... Yeah". And I look at where he's looking, and there's a girl glancing back at him, and he's smiling. Or trying to act 'cool'. I know it's natural to glance, but when he does it, he takes it full out. When I want to pick something for us to do- he says no. And if I don't want to do something
2006-09-01 21:52:41 · 8 answers · asked by bratworth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That he wants to do, he gets mad at me and says that I;m selfish and that he always tries to do what I want to do, what he heck? He always laughs at me when I'm doing something, and he'll say that other girls are pretty and hot- when he doesn't even say that about me! He's always making me feel like I'm nothing when he does this... Am I wrong to think like this? Am I too needy? What do I do?
2006-09-01 21:54:34 · update #1
You're not too needy. But you are expecting too much from this guy. He isn't the right one for you. You don't have to put up with being ignored or being made to feel bad in any way. Don't think that he is going to change for you. He is being selfish and doesn't value your relationship. Why would you want to be with someone that doesn't appreciate you anyway? There are good guys out there. Find one that will want you around him.
2006-09-01 22:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kami 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very immature and isn't ready for a relationship. You need to dump him and look for a much better guy that will give you the attention you deserve. This guys sounds like he's all for himself. Sometimes it's hard to let go but you really don't want a guy like that. You know you deserve much better and you will get someone better. Don't waste your time on a selfish person!
2006-09-02 04:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,you are not needy but I'll tell you what you don't need,you don't need his disrespectful @ss,he has shown you every possible way that he doesn't give a damn about you and girl you can do so much better than him.He sounds like a serious loser,you can find you somebody who will love you for you and not play games with your heart,trust me, he's out there.
2006-09-02 05:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey dump him he is pushing you away for a reason, he want's you to brake up with him first. It's not worth you getting all down about it. You deserve to be happy.
2006-09-02 05:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let hime wait for awhile things will change
2006-09-02 05:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Bob D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should forget that boyfriend of yours you doesn't deserve him, you will find another man that will respect you and love you for who you are!
2006-09-02 04:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by honeyko_japan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're so unhappy break up.
2006-09-02 04:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by d h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
he is not that into you anymore
sorry cuz it has happened to me
2006-09-02 05:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by kayro3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋