This married lady wanted to date me a while back & I told her I don't date married women. & when she asked me why, I told her I believe that a woman that'll cheat on her husband w/me, will cheat on me & her husband w/other men. & on the other side of the coin, why would you "married woman" feel that you can be so trusting of me thinking I'll be more faithful to you?... I don't respect your husband, you , nor your marriage!
2006-09-01 21:18:41 · 8 answers · asked by DRAG RACER 7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree 100%. you made one Honorable decision there. Its good quality guys like you that show that there are still good fish out there in the ocean.
2006-09-01 21:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is subjective.. this should be applicable only on those who are inborn cheaters who will never improve and will keep on cheating the people around them.. but there are other people who are taking counter action.. there are other people who are doing it because of some sort of disatisfaction.. there are people who love their spouse but they dont get the same in turn as per their expectation.. so it is hard to generalize ...
Now accepting her proposal is entirely your own decision...
2006-09-01 21:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moreso important, hopefully you told her you don't date married women because it's morally wrong! And not because you think she will cheat on you because she wants to cheat on her spouse. So as marvelous as you would like us to think you are, they're not trusting you, they just want to have an affair, and could care less about you being faithful to them. And if you would even consider it or try to deceive yourself into thinking you're oh so desireable...sorry. It isn't that you don't respect their husband, their marriage, or them. It's that you don't respect yourself! You worrying about who cheats on who is not the issue!! The issue is why would someone even think you were approachable to begin with? You wouldn't date a married woman because you're thinking a married woman who cheats on her husband will cheat on you??? Mister, you are missing the whole point!!! Your attitude should be, "I don't date married women because I respect the institution and sacredness of marriage. Go home to your husband." Not because you're worried about some married woman who's cheating on her husband also cheating on you. That reduces you to the level of some cheap whore. Chances are, if you gave her the above response about respecting the sanctity of marriage, she'd go home to her husband, and eventually be grateful that you said that. But the, You cheat on him, you're gonna cheat on me is crap. You're looking for a medal for, Hey, I had a chance to srew somebody's wife and I didn't. Not because I thought it was morally wrong, but because I figured if she cheated on her husband, she'd cheat on me too. NOT! You get a medal for ahole of the year!, not a pat on the back for, "See how great and moralistic I am because I wouldn't screw someone else's wife because I thought she would cheat on me too.'
2006-09-01 21:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by mhiaa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes an eye for an eye and " action there is an reaction " or retribution or krama . . whatever...it exists...
2006-09-01 21:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. It's hard enough to please on person,let alone 2or 3. I didn't like it done to me, I wont do it to someone else.
2006-09-01 21:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater!!!
2006-09-01 21:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh,SOME!
2006-09-01 21:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeahhhhhhhhhh.............
2006-09-01 21:24:51 · answer #8 · answered by shortiluv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋