so me and my best friend dated these two guys that were also bestfriends sam and tom both very sweet she broke up with him when she moved to the south island i suck with my man sam, tom would hang out with us.We would all go out for dinner it was really sweet and nice to have two guys at dinner with me...after while i broke up with sam, and me and tom went to a party not together but i took him home, ever since ive been dying to tell tom i think hes a great guy etc.but i dont wanna upset sam or my bestfriend..even though it seems like sam is always trying to get me to flirt with tom and hang out with him..tom is 22 im almost 18? what to do you think..
i think i would marry tom if he asked me hes so amazing and we both love all the same stuff apart from he can sing and i cant. Both really into design..Hes really nice to talk to..but i still dont know if he likes me...or if he doesnt wana upset sam. ITS SO CRAZY!!!
I care for both guys soo much...please help
2006-09-01 21:02:35 · 6 answers · asked by Taylor 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If two people were ment to be together then they should friends and ex's should be able to understand that also and if they really care about you and value your friendships with them than they should have no problems .
2006-09-01 21:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, almost 18 and messed up already...I'm not trying to be mean, but why is everyone in such a hurry to be IN LOVE? I have been in several relationships over the years (35) and wish I had waited on the woman I'm now with...I have learned a lot but I see that 17 yr olds are making the mistakes that I made at 25...I'm baffled...why not just be a teenager, go to school, college, get a career going, date and wait...don't be so quick to get all tied up with someone...much less two people..I'm just sayin...
2006-09-02 04:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by noflacko 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow girl stop the lorry,marrige.dont u think you are taking it tooo far.first of all a girl has to have boundaries and this should be one of them.secondly the fact that you have doubts is indicative that it is wrong but you should talk to the tom guy and here how he feels abt all of this.well!the other thing is that you guys seem so tight-your friendship that is,do you realy want to put that on the line.apart from everything think abt your bestfriend is ur that meaningless that you will hurt her like that,by going that far?THINK ABT IT BEFOR YOU MAKE ANY RASH DECISIONS LYK GET MARRIED.
2006-09-02 04:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by boomkat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
long stories should also be banned..contact friends like me through messenger to get ideas.
2006-09-02 04:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by maninsearch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some more time is required..
2006-09-02 04:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIVE IT SOME TIME AND DECIDE WHO YOU WANT TO BE WITH.
2006-09-02 04:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by tia c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋