Help me please!! i really want to know what you think out there!!
2006-09-01 20:54:17 · 18 answers · asked by Mater_rocks!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your parents trust you. Thats why they arent stocking you when you are out with your friends or whatever
why break the trust?
plu syou would be so much more mature when you are older. when you start young you dont really have a mature relationship.
if you do decide to go behind his back then you are losing his trust and he is most likely going to find out soon. also why in the world would you betray your own parent that have given you so much?
2006-09-01 20:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think 16 is a very good age to start dating. For one thing, what is the point if one of you can't drive?
Also, if your dad finds out you dated behind his back, he will not trust you when you are 16 to be responsible.
I can tell you I know how you feel, because I did not date until I was nearly 18. It's hard when you are in school and everyone seems to be a couple. Now at 26, I am glad, because a couple extra years without dating gave me better perspective about men and why I wanted a relationship.
2006-09-02 03:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by Tina K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. I had the same experience once, and I was 16 at that time! My father, a brute, just shouted something at me about not being allowed to have a girlfriend (until an unspecified age). I decided I was sure as heck not going to listen to him.
Personal experiences have also led me to believe that if you let others make your decisions for you, you will regret it, no matter what the outcome is. This was originally a line spoken by a minor character in the game Pokemon Sapphire, but it rang true when she said it.
Therefore I believe if you and the guy really like each other, go for it, but you should have the mindset that the relationship might not last, and in fact it probably won't.
2006-09-02 04:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should respect your dad's guidelines he set for you & don't think you will get away with hiding the b/f...Dad's aren't as stupid as you think. You may get away with it for awhile...but never forget...What you are trying to do & get away with now...he did it & probably invented some sneaking techniques. Not to mention that you would be completely disrespecting your father. A man who is doing his best to help you make good and right decisions even if you believe it or not. TRUST ME!!! I pulled that on my dad & you DO NOT want to feel the most horrible feeling in the world!!! When your dad cries & looks at you & tells you he doesn't trust you anymore b/c you went behind his back & undermined his authority & in the process hurt him like he'd never been hurt before b/c see... I was his little girl & he made necessary decisions to protect me & guide me right & I disreguarded all of that by being selfish & hard headed. Boy was he right!!! I would take everything back I ever did that hurt him w/o hesitation b/c I was wrong. He was right!!!! And he loved me enough be tough when needed & providing us with knowledge & support as much as possible so we were prepared to the best of his ability. Thanks Dad. I appreciate you more than you know!
2006-09-02 04:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by paigenstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect your father and listen to him. He wants what is best for you and he wants you to put your schooling first. You will have plenty of time for boys when you get older. If you keep a secret from your father he Will find out. Lieing to your father will cause you to have him lose trust in you. Don't rebel against what he asks of you. Just remain friends with the boy. Introduce him to your dad. Be honest with your dad about boys. Ask your dad questions and converse with him about your decisions and also with what he expects from you. Trust, honesty, respect, truth and good communication are some of the things that is greatly important in family. Go to your dad and let him know what is on your heart of your concerns and thoughts. I wish you well....
2006-09-02 04:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your dad want the best for you. I mean there is no way to hide it anyway. What if your bf call one day and your not there and you dad happen to know or a friend of his see you together and tell him? It could hurt him alot to know that you don't listen to him. And you could lose his trust forever. i think wait and enjoy your life and friends for now. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-02 04:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you..Okay get a bf and keep it a secret but what would that make me?..lol..It would be fun to have a bf and keep it a secret but what if your parents find out? It would be hard for them to trust you again..Just wait till your 16. I think you will be emotionally prepared by that time:)
2006-09-02 04:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started dating at 16, and I think this is the age when you can really appreciate a relationship, not before. Before that it is practically childish. I think you should take your dad's advice. And be responsible. Dating means not being a child anymore, hiding from parents and so on.
2006-09-02 04:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents only want the best for you .. and I tend to agree with him on this one. Right now its just best to be friends and enjoy that time. When you get into a relationship with them, things can become complicated and needless to say you lack the maturity to handle it. Nothing worse then a broken hearted child.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-02 03:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would say that since ur getting closer to fully maturing and being more responsible (that means making choices on your own) then to not listen to him. be yourself and go for it if thats what you want. hes your dad but hes not controlling you. he cant make your choices or tell you what to do. all parents tell their sons and daughters that. dont let that cloud you or make you have second thoughts. you got nothing to lose and if he finds out then talk to him about it. make sure he understands. always remember be yourself dont let him be the controller and the whip if you know wat i mean. good luck and happy hunting :P
2006-09-02 04:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋