See I've dated a few guys but I've never let them kiss me either by saying so upfront or pushing them off if they tried (evil i know) and my friends all tease and say that I'm a prude but it's really because I want it to be really special cuz you only have one first kiss. I have a new bf and I think he really wants a kiss from me but I'm not sure about it. Does this mean I'm not ready?
2006-09-01 20:51:10 · 21 answers · asked by LalaLola 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can get ready right now..
2006-09-01 20:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by maninsearch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay what you are!!! If you think that the first kiss is for someone special then you are absolutely right! kissing someone is not an achievement at all ! it has to do with your comfort level! do not listen to your friends and get swept off your feet! be firm and yes i believe that It is your self-respect and dignity that reflects in your relationships. everyone can kiss but if you look into the depths of relationships, physical things just do not matter! a guy who wants to start with a kiss is actually not worth it! a person who is genuinely interested in you would not demand such things!
2006-09-01 20:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mooch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relax, kissing is a lot of fun, but it should be with someone that you like. you do have more than one first kiss though. cause all guys are different. the best advice for when you actually do is to just relax and enjoy it. If your partner isn't good then don't freak out. in a few years from now it won't be a big deal at all
2006-09-01 21:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the right view. Good for you! Yes, kiss only whom you think is worth kissing with and do not go farther than that. Do not let your friends dictate what you want and what you become. Kiss passionately coz it should be from the heart not out of curiosity or peer pressure -yunesa@yahoo.com
2006-09-01 20:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by yunesa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm completely the comparable! i'm a 365 days youthful than you and that i've got in no way been in a relationship it rather is lasted longer than 2 weeks, and that i'm pleased with that too! i think of it fairly is rather staggering which you're cool with it and don't permit it worry you, and it fairly is rather great which you're self reliant sufficient to sense that way. i for my section think of considerable severe relationships at this form of youthful age are too plenty and easily not rather worth it. Why be tied down? in simple terms have exciting and cope with all that severe emotional stuff later! we've plentyyyyyy of time, so why rush it? And who cares in case you have not had your first kiss? it rather is terrific to watch for somebody particular to return alongside so which you will proportion it with somebody who potential plenty to you. it fairly is thoroughly everyday and that i say stable for you! :)
2016-11-23 18:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by mansell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say yes! but if you don't want to just say no! and if the guy don't understand that, then tell him to get to step'n cuz you ain't got time for people pressuring you into doing anything you don't want to! and as for your friends... hmm lets see mayb they regret kissing some of the boys they have kissed and are jealous of you!!!! but anyways keep your head up girl and don't do anything you don't want to!! JUST SAY NO!!! lol if you don't feel comfortable! :o) take care best of luck to ya :o)
2006-09-01 20:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ LEILANI ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off DO NOT GIVE IN TO PEER PRESSURE! After the kiss then they will do their best to get you to be their slut and whore! That's
the way our society has evolved! With that you may just as well find yourself a corner and work it and at least get paid for it!
2006-09-01 21:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give in to peer pressure. You'll do the things you want to do when you're comfortable and ready for them. Btw, those aren't very good friends if they're teasing you.
2006-09-01 20:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by Private Account 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to, don't. Your friends should respect that you do not want to become more physical with boys. When you want to is the right time for a kiss.
2006-09-01 20:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by Tina K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what they think? If they tease you about never kissing a guy, tell them you are afraid you might kiss THEIR guy and you can't have that. LOL
2006-09-01 20:54:29 · answer #10 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your first kiss should be specail and be with someone that is special to you. Talk with him about it be open if he really likes you then he'll wait till your ready.
2006-09-01 20:54:52 · answer #11 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋