he watch porn movies , sites but he is not any more intrested in sex with me . and i feel soo bad that my hubby is not any more intrested in me. if i forced him to do then he just do as duty. if he is having some problem ? or what can i do? pls tell me
2006-09-01 20:18:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
sorry to say that some men have a problem making love to their partner when she is pregnant. It is mental, you are not the only one going through this. Some men think that they will"hurt the baby" and some men think that they will hurt you, or both. There is really nothing you can do about this situation. It's up to the man to feel comfortable with himself in order to continue relations with a pregnant woman. Remember all the attention is on you right now and some men get jealous. It's just what happens . sorry and good luck. Don't let this mentally destroy you remember your thinking for you and your baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-01 20:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by SKYE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel!! Sexual intimacy plays a huge part in marriage. It is unfair of him to keep what is rightfully yours (his body) from you. This is how affairs can start. Tell him you love him, and that you are feeling neglected. That you need him to take extra care of you now because you are expecting, and that if he ever needed you in any way, you would be there for him. Hope this helps!! Him watching porn movies is probably part of his problem. Maybe he is comparing you to women in the video. This may become an addiction for him and will eventually harm your relationship even further. In other words.... the porn HAS GOT TO GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-02 04:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by Monique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men aren't attracted to pregnant women, or like said above he might feel scared! I would ask him what the problem was, and talk it out! Good luck!
2006-09-02 05:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by acekingsuited83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your hubby is a little insensitive... Please try not to take it to heart.
Ask him about it. There might be other reasons. For example, often men think it will hurt the baby somehow or induce labor... (It can induce labor but that's later on...)
2006-09-02 03:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by snape4good 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should send my B/f over to you ! LOL
He wants it and wants it and I just dont. Being pregnant has turned off all the sexy in me.
He says I still look good and stuff... but I just lost my desire for it.
2006-09-02 03:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by timberleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just ask him if there is something wrong...i wouldnt make him have sex that is a big turn off for a man..honey when he wants it he will come and get it..till then i think u should find a way to please your self...sorry to hear that! good luck
2006-09-02 03:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. If he says he still feels uninterested, go buy you a "friend" and then you don't have to worry about it.
2006-09-02 08:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by dolphins_chic_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbation is your best option.
2006-09-02 03:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋