I met this guy and he's my age (27) and we have a great time and laugh A LOT, and have so much in common and I told him I wanted to take things slow and he ended up kissing me when we've only been talking for a month or less. (Is that slow to him maybe?) I always screw things up by screwing too early and I don't want that to happen again. I'm not a virgin but not a slut but I really like him and feel childish if I wait "till we're married" so where's the line to be drawn?
2006-09-01 20:01:27 · 22 answers · asked by Miss Understood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are great at taking your time..... and the best thing about you is that you already know how it feels, so there is no nervousness that you once had as a virgin. no babe...just take your time and hopefully he will understand that you just want to make sure that when you 2 do it, that it is the right time.
2006-09-01 20:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by daddydoggie 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First off, y'all seem to have at least a "dating" relationship going on and after 3 or 4 weeks a kiss would not seem out of place. Only you know when the time is right for sex. It's hard to give advise on that part of a relationship. I think if the guy really likes you than he will wait until y'all are both ready. Does sex seem to be the down fall of your past relationships? It might be best to be patient and have some fun w/out going all the way. If y'all do have sex, make it so good that he can't stop thinking about you. Hey your 27, it's not your first rodeo. Good luck!
2006-09-02 03:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Fort Worth, TX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no definite time for having sex. The most important thing is your reason/s for having sex. Just make sure to have sex for the right reasons and not for the wrong reasons. Sex after marriage is not bad at all. When your ready, you'll know.
2006-09-02 03:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by Meeya 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually I like to do adhere to the 8 date rule or 2 months before sex. Two reasons for this. You want to get to know what kind of person he or she is and you get more comfortable with the other physically. Usually the first few times is going to be lacking because you two are getting used to each other sexually and learning how to "pick each other's locks".
2006-09-02 03:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, the fact that u asked is u are ask is that ur having a secong thought about it, and looking for opinions that would sumhow lighten your predicaments.....if i am ask, then i would never just give myself just to have sex itself but i want to make love fully to a man that i love, so having sex is not an option but alwsy a choice of not to or have to,.. and it aint fool to wait for proper time, and relationship. so many things to consider if we will just do it, i'd rather do it only when i find my partner *** husband, with all pleasures and sanctity..... so you shud avoid being alone just the 2 of you most of the time cos that can spark the flame for both of you to do that thing that you ought not to as of the moment,.........k,......its all frm here personally :)
2006-09-02 03:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by candee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too soon is before youre married. unless youre married sex is wrong as much as that may suck its true. honor God by obeying that rule. and if that doesnt convince you then wait til youre married and in love. sex is supposed to be something of true love and if you have it with every guy you go out with then youre just making it something to do.
2006-09-02 03:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by That Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only a month.Please give it time.Let the relationship blossom gradually. I am not saying "only after marriage". At least wait till he gives you a solemn commitment for marriage!
2006-09-02 03:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a progression here, and it's not kissing....sex. Let it lead up to that gradually. I don't believe in waiting until marriage, though, so that part is up to you.
2006-09-02 03:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by chante 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You making this poor man wait? Wait too long and he's gonna go out sniffing around. All us men are dogs. Give it up for him.
2006-09-02 03:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by hairballdave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will be more happy , if you can wait till you get marry . Good luck .
2006-09-02 03:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋