i just got out of a relationship that went sour for four years, that hurts like hell . now theres two women enter my life , one is single the others been dating for two months. the single one seem like one night stand to me the taken one seem like meet my epectation for relationship. which one should i spend my time invest on? im kind of scared of relationship cause of the last one that hurt me so bad , but im ready for a relationship to settle down for a family. what should i do ?take my time shop around?im already 26 .
2006-09-01 19:50:11 · 13 answers · asked by Rocky c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you go for the single one it could lead to sex. If you go for the attached one, you could get the hell knocked out of you. What sounds like more fun?
2006-09-01 19:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life and relationships are scary at all times. As time goes by you'll have to make your own decision for that, But don't get caught into another immediate relationship just yet. Let the mind,spirit, and body, calm down first and heal so you don't make another mistake. Always live one day at a time. As my mother once told me, there is more fish in the ocean than just one. GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-01 20:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by papasmurf47302 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things you need to consider here. If she will cheat on her current to be w/ you she'll probably do it to you as well.Secondly life has a way of teaching you how others have felt when you've wronged them. What goes around.Lastly just because a woman sleeps w/ you on the first date doesn't mean she's damaged goods. Maybe she needed to feel wanted same as you. Don't be so judgmental and do what your conscience tells you.
2006-09-01 19:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your own girl. Seriously. The last thing you needs in your life is a jealous boyfriend wanting a piece of your *** and a girlfriend who would potentially cheat on you. The girl you are chasing who is in the middle of a relationship needs to break it off is she isn't happy or make it better.
2006-09-01 19:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure you really like this girl?? all the answer is in your hands... u just need to have a good judgement on this thing because ur life is at great risk out here... play smart and please guard ur heart there are still alot of ladies out there so dont settle for anyone immediately just because you feel that you are ready... comeon its too early to say that ur ready ur still young....
2006-09-01 19:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_avenger21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time, slow down, you have plenty of time. When you are not looking, the right girl for you will come along, and will knock you over, and then you won't even have to decide between two, you will just know that she is the right one..
2006-09-01 19:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the single one and have some fun.u just got out of a relationship....enjoy!
2006-09-01 19:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Off course,what do u think? how wud u feel if sombody else stole your gf? wudn't u feel sad?
So try somone who's single or someone who broke up with their ex-bf's.its always better.
Never try to steal others gf.its worse than crime.
Good luck, keep hunting
2006-09-01 19:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Bravo mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your expectations are to be with someone who will cheat on her boyfriend, then have at her. Just don't cry to daddy when she returns the favor on you (or when her current boyfriend catches up to you). Yep, she sounds like real marriage material.
2006-09-01 19:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by Christopher B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
single
2006-09-01 19:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋