I have feelings for one of my friends. I think she's the most attractive girl. I liked her for quite some time now. But i aint planning to tell her yet. She said she aint ready for relationships as she is busy with her studies. Plus she havent gone thru any relationships yet. Im willing to wait for her for another 2 and a half yrs. By then, she would fniish her studies. Im not the most handsome guy ard but do you think my loyalty to her will pay off?
2006-09-01 19:40:34 · 14 answers · asked by zeco2410 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your loyalty is in vain and only exists in your own private little world. If you haven't made your feelings known to her, how is she going to know of your loyalty. Is it going to payoff. No. Because she doesn't even know about it? My advice to you is to enjoy your youth, date and see other people. As crazy as you may be about this chick now, trust me, she is not the one you are going to end up marrying. I'm telling you now. We can't help you. You have to help yourself. Just because you are not the most handsome guy there are still tons of chicks out there looking for a good guy who is going to be loyal to them. Have confidence in yourself. Sometimes that is all it takes. It worked for me. Peace and God bless.
2006-09-01 19:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Before doing so, think about some stuff seriously
1) Do you think she'll appreciate you waiting for 2 years?
2) Is she worth it?
3) Are you sure you will be constant(loyal) throughout the whole 2 years?
Things may still change as time pass, i promise you that! But hey, if you really love the girl.. it's worth a try! Good luck :)
2006-09-01 19:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by HNY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually you will get sick of waiting for her and you will convince yourself to talk to her about something more than just a friendship. If she isnt interested in a relationship right now, just be friends, date other people and dont wait for her, who knows what the future holds, you two might end up together.
You could also wait, and just be friends with her, but it could get to the point where she likes you so much she doesnt want to risk the friendship, and in the end you will have just put off any real dating.
2006-09-01 19:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by Gary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 06:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks aren't everything...Personality, honesty, character, loyalty...those are truly the things that matter in a relationship. Good luck to ya! And FYI, ditch using the word "ain't". Bad grammer is a HUGE turn-off!
2006-09-01 19:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by taraleighsg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste you time. "I am not ready for a relationship and I am busy with my studies" means "I am not interested in you, now or ever!" She's probably aware of your feelings but doesn't want to crush you.
Also, if she doesn't think you're hot, your loyalty will just make her feel sorry and awkward.
2006-09-01 19:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her that you have feelings for her and that you are not going to rush her because she is into her studies and yes loyalty at some points may work in your favor it depends on who the girl is
2006-09-01 19:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. She doesn't want you--if she did, she would be dating you. She will find some other guy to date, and you will be forced to watch it all happen, and be a good friend to help while he treats her like krap. Sorry, that's the way it is. It is best that someone tell you the truth.
2006-09-01 19:45:33 · answer #8 · answered by jellyfishwich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to say it.......but, NO it wont pay off.......
you are her "friend" and only her friend.......
start dating others.......
dont put your life on hold.......she may be busy with studies.....but, she still has time for a relationship or dating....
those are just her excuses not to hurt you or ruin what she sees as a great "friendship".
Sorry
2006-09-01 19:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by sapphirenplatinum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it will. 2.5 years is a long time, especially in terms of you two being in high school or whatever. Move on, as you can try again in 2.5 years with her.
2006-09-01 19:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋