for one i know i am not pure and two i am just talking about until our wedding night so it can be more romantic so no i dont think its to late to be asking that Q mrs understood. i am just thinking about something romantic for my husband to be thank you very much, can i please get some positive ideas thanks.
2006-09-01 19:27:12 · 8 answers · asked by #1 mother2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My wife and I were pretty tired on our wedding night, after a day of preparations, the ceremony, then the party afterwords, and finally the trip to our honeymoon destination. I would suggest nothing too elaborate, as you might be tiring too. Arrange to go somewhere intimate, where the two of you can be totally alone, and "let your hair down" so to speak. Have some favorite foods (fruits, snacks, drinks) available. Make sure your attention stays on your husband, and let nature take it's course. Maybe have some of his favorite music playing on a stereo. I don't think personally that any kind of gift is really necessary, He's just received the best gift any man could want. A loving, devoted wife at his side for life.
2006-09-02 17:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you've had sex before I can understand why you still want your wedding night to be special! Think about what he really likes. Has he always tried to get you to buy racy langerie? Buy something to suprise him! Or maybe he really apreciates have the mood "set" You could (or have a close friend) go to your hotel ahead of time and set up some candles (to be lit when you get there) and rose petals on the bed. Call the location ahead of time. Some will even send you complementry wine of chocolate covered strawberries. If your having an earlier wedding maybe even have a private candelite dinner in your room. I'm sure you would enjoy some one on one time to let the whole day set in. Or try getting a book on sensual massage-you can check one out at your local library believe it or not-and a male fregrance massage oil. bed bath and beyond has good non-girlie scents. My future husband loves a good massage--and it can come handy later on down the road too! I hope one of these ideas helps get your creative juices flowing! good luck and congrats!!!
2006-09-01 20:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by Female Racer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds from your question like someone was mean to you, and I just wanted to say I am sorry for that. I don't know why people like to nitpick and be boogers instead of just being happy for people.
My wedding night was not terribly romantic, and from talking to a lot of people, I gather that is often the case. You are so worn out from a busy day that all you can think to do is go to bed. If that happens, don't let it stress you out. Making love as married people is definitely different, and can be quite emotional, but it sure didn't happen that first night for us--we were just too tired :)
With that said, here are some things that friends have told me they did and which I think sound romantic and nice.
--One friend wrote a letter to her man about all the things she loved about him and about why she was so happy to be his wife. She read it to him that first night. She also told me that she made some promises to him that night that go beyond what is in the traditional marriage vows, but she didn't volunteer what they were, and I didn't think it was my business to ask. I just thought it was a nice way for them to end the night on a good note.
--Another friend made a CD of her man's favorite romantic songs, and she had a boom box all set up in their room, and they had some nice, alone time just dancing and unwinding from the busy day.
--Another friend went out and bought them matching fun PJs, as well as stashing a couple of fun DVDs in their room. They had snacks and popcorn and watched movies that night, and I think they may have moved on to more serious things later on.
--Yet another friend packed some relaxing bath goodies in his bag (yes, this one was the groom, not the bride). He ran her a hot bath and let her soak while he changed clothes and got their bags in and stuff. Then they had a sexy shower together, but he told me he didn't actually lose his virginity until later the next day, when they got to their honeymoon destination.
--And this is my favorite one! One of my friends arranged with a nearby restaurant to have delivery brought in of her husband's favorite breakfast foods that night, after they got to their hotel. The hotel had room service, but not breakfast foods, so she arranged in advance with the restaurant for all his favorites, including fresh juice and fresh berries with his waffles. He was really happy, because despite the fact that they'd had a busy day, and been around food all day, they hadn't actually had time to sit down to eat. She said he was so happy to have waffles and bacon at midnight that he almost cried :) The best surprise was that he had the same idea, only her favorite thing is a hamburger with guacamole and swiss cheese, so they each sat there and ate their favorite foods after a long, hard day. And they ate a lot, because she ordered breakfast for two, and he ordered burgers for two.
Whatever you do, enjoy yourself. That's a special night for both of you.
2006-09-01 20:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Bronwen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mm...im havin the same problem u are sorta!!
im not "pure" either...& im tryin to think of some ideas too...
but i have a few since u asked:::::
----i donno your home stability....soo i donno if this first one will help u out ne...but
if u dont have yall dont have a place of yall own...then you u could goo lookin for a simple apartment or home
[[rent or buy, you kno wat im sayin]]
for your lil family u have....&on the weddin day or the have some close friends move a bed with candles & rose petles all over the place [considering for the majority itll be empy] wit ne other accessories u mite need in your new place...
decide whether he like restraunt food or homemade food better...
& have it waitin for yall for you weddin nite...after the reception & everything...& yall can spend the first nites in your new home....
sorry if that seems kinda lame to u...ha
2006-09-02 00:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lili 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be the girl you used to be...show him all your love like a little girl when she takes care of her dolls and ...pray ! God will give you the best answer/answers!
i'm happy for you, you're sincere and God loves that in a human being!
May God bless you, your future husband and your families!
2006-09-01 19:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a star named after him, it's not very expensive and hand him the certificate.
2006-09-02 05:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let things happen on their own...it is better that way..let nature take it's course...enjoy the moment...
the best laid plans often go awry
2006-09-01 19:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a surprise brazilian wax and sexy lingerie.
2006-09-01 20:58:44 · answer #8 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋