2006-09-01 19:21:56 · 17 answers · asked by brummie_bykerbabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
wow there are way too many ways to handle it but what i would do knowing my patience cause i don't play with kids and they don't play with me so with that being siad lol you still can't control them lmao man do i know that just keep them separate from who they are arguing with. have them watch a movie or play a game or have them do something where they don't talk much hopefully less arguing lol
PS. You can bribe them lol if worst comes to worst if they don't argue they get 5 bux or something or treated to the ,movies i don't know but just trying to give ya diff ideas to try hun k
PSS i think xsandybreezerx gave you great advice cause its actually what i tell my kid sometimes
2006-09-01 19:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure of what ages these children are - but the key thing I think is engaging them in doing something so that there isn't the time / opportunity to mill around and start getting frustrated with each other. Strangley - board games (such as monopoly) seem to be coming quite popular again with youngsters - and particularly so if there is some competition between them - and it increases the focus and desire to win. Of course, adults need to be there with them in this scenario to stop arguments before they get out of hand. Otherwise - if they continue - put them outside when they start arguing and say they can come in when they can be polite to each other and stress you are not having that behaviour in your house from your daughter or from guests.
2006-09-02 02:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by pyronaught2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't volunteer to have them over, or when they start a fight put whoever started it in the corner or put them all in the corner, and in separate rooms. try to stay fair, i know you'd like to think it isn't your daughter, but for all you know she is starting some of these fights. make sure you aren't just disciplining the niece and nephew, your kid's as much to blame. or do a preemptive strike and tell your daughter no matter what she needs to walk away and tell you or just walk away.
2006-09-02 02:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three is the magic number when it comes to kids and fights. If you haven't provided some structured activities or positive reinforcement for even the slightest good behavior then start right away!
2006-09-02 02:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they argue make them stand apart in the same room as you till they all agree to stop arguing
you will have to do this lots of times at first but they will get the message
just keep saying they could be playing NICELY but until they do they will all stand still in quite
2006-09-02 02:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by paulette7618 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try separating them and letting them do nothing but sit there quiet for a while. That usually works for a while. Any peace you can get is better than none.
2006-09-02 02:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by sweet.pjs1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make them hav chill out time if they fight or argue .who ever starts first make them sit on the stairs with no talkin for 5 mins if that dont work up the time .they will soon realise that they cant get away with it hope this works . it work for me
2006-09-02 03:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by carolyn m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well remember that your daughter lives there not the other 2 so if it kicks off seperate them but go easy on your daughter.
2006-09-02 03:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by 90210 aka Hummer Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why are you having them? Guess this is the last time you issue that invitation! luckily, tomorrow is another day and they can go home.
2006-09-02 02:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invest in some duct tape and tape up their mouths, wrists and ankles.
2006-09-02 02:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by Phlodgeybodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋