our wedding is going to at the courthouse on the 29th so iwas wondering should we still be together the night before the wedding or should we sleep elsewhere
2006-09-01 19:00:25 · 17 answers · asked by #1 mother2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Congratulations!! I also got married just. On the 20th august. Stay with him the night before the wedding. It helps to live through all the stress of the next day!!
2006-09-01 23:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the reasons that man brides and grooms (even if they currently live together) don't stay the night together is becasue they want the first time they see each other to be walking down the aisle ready. meaning dressed and ready to go. It's exciting to see your bride/groom all dressed up and can have a dramatic emotional effect. Wether that's as you walk down the aisle of for pictures before. It's certainly not really a bad luck omen to see your fieance earlier that morning. With that said--are you doing any special preperations before you meet to go to the court house? Are you suprising him with a special gown/outfit? If not, than seeing him before may not be a big deal to you. If you feel it's a fun tradition and would make you both happy to indulge in--than go for it Bottom line...do what feels right in your heart and makes you most comfortable. Not what other people say you have to do just because of an old tradition. Good luck and congrats!
2006-09-01 20:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by Female Racer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We got married Saturday morning. Thursday night we stayed together in a hotel room at the hotel the reception was at. Friday night, he stayed at home and I stayed in the hotel room(my bridesmaids had the suite next to my room and stayed there Thurs night and Fri night, my dad paid for that). We didn't want to see each other until the ceremony.
It depends - are you going to have pictures taken? Some people do the pictures beforehand. If so, I'd suggest having a few minutes for just you and him to be together before all the pictures happen.
Best of luck!
2006-09-02 10:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Moxie1313 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My family came in town so I went and stayed the night with my sisters and mom. He stayed the night at his parents house. Since you're having a courthouse wedding I would suggest you stay the night apart as an ode to the traditionalism of weddings. Have him stay with a friend or family member - you keep the house where you are comfortable. Invite one of your girlfriends over to stay the night (or invite a few and have a slumber/girl's night). You're going to be nervous, he's going to be nervous. It's best to separate and spend one last night with friends. Congratulations!!!
2006-09-02 01:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kristi C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel about it. Are you trying to create an "wedding-like" feel or are you just going through the motions? My husband and I were living together before we got married and we slept in different rooms the night before. We were eloping (in-town) so he was the only person available to zip my dress! I like to think of our wedding day as the ultimate date!!!
2006-09-02 04:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I stayed apart, it's up to the future bride and groom. It does make the honeymoon better the night of the wedding if you two stay apart. (Even if you two don't go anywhere). God Bless You Two and hold on to God's unchanging hand because this is a job you guys are entering into that takes a lot of prayer and staying humble.
2006-09-01 19:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by MrsE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The night before my wedding we had the rehearsal dinner, then my fiancee went back to our house, and I went to my Mother's house, with our son, we finished all the decorating etc... and then I slept over at my mothers with all my friends and family. Even though we had lived together for 5 years. The next day I was so excited to see him all dressed up, and he couldn't wait to see me in my dress. It was great!
2006-09-02 06:44:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The night before our wedding we spent together, we woke up together and went to the ceremony together, it was perfect in everyway possible. You must do what you want and not what you think others may expect of you. Good luck.
2006-09-02 05:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you fairly shouldn't stay on my own on an analogous time as in a distinctive united states of america. i do no longer think of it would be secure for you. If I have been you i'd ignore with reference to the full "do no longer see eachother, the day of the marriage element". you may desire to ascertain you're with him or somebody else on your room. in basic terms don't be on my own. I hear that Jamaica could be very risky. good success!
2016-12-18 03:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i would stay together and Congrats on Ur wedding to
God bless
may the lord be with u at all times ok
2006-09-01 19:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋