This guy I like has been a really good friend for over a year, and a couple months ago I told him I liked him. He was flattered, but nothing happened. Then about two months ago he asked me out on a date, and it was great, but now were back to friends again. Could I have done something? How can I help get this relationship off the ground?
2006-09-01 18:54:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear friend,
I know that u r very much concerned about him. Dont worry. It will be fine. What u have to do is to b calm and pretend as if u r not that concerned about him. Its really a guy's matter to get concerned about his gf, not a girl's matter.
When u begin to do this, he will come to u. Since your date was good,i dont think u need to do anything else but to wait.
Also make sure u dont get obessive, that really irritates most guys.
Be in touch with him, never loose contact with him for a long time because he might think that u broke with him. never hurt his feelings.
if i u were in your shoes, i wud to everything that wud bring him to me,not me goin to him. Like how pide piper brings all the rats from the city. So be calm and do the things that most girls do to get back their loved oned to their control.
Good luck
2006-09-01 19:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by Bravo mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some balls(excuse the term) and ask him out first. if you really like take the shot. the worst that can happen is he will say no. he probably feels the same way, but thinks your not into him. be subtle and let him know your interested in being more than just friends
2006-09-02 01:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kidnap his dog and take snapshots of the pet bound and gagged along with a nice note detailing what will happen to his beloved pet if he doesn't ask you out on a date again.
Now its up to you after you've secured that first date to make him want more of you!
2006-09-02 02:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by piteous_wight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of these answers a really funny, most of the guys think sex should be involved. one said that you should take him home and take off your clothes. if he didn't like that. it would be a huge matza ball hanging on you nose. Just be nice to him smile at him and listen to him. compliment him get in his face. have fun and good luck
2006-09-02 02:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by tan t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but it sounds like he is not into you that way...just be his friend and find someone else who will feel the same way you do!
2006-09-02 02:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is easy. invite him over to ur house and show him around. as soon as u get to ur room say do u want to go out w/me. watever happens have sex with him, that should do it.
2006-09-02 02:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by The One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to your house and start taking your clothes off, that should
drop a big enough hint. just strip naked and jump him.
2006-09-02 01:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like he may not like you in that way.
although if you give his some of that sweet nasty....he may change his mind
2006-09-02 01:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just doesn't like you in that way.
2006-09-02 01:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Him, flash him and ride him
2006-09-02 01:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by Tom M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋