about that? Does it bother you that were are not a virgin?
2006-09-01 18:54:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No, my hubby got my virginity, but a couple of years before we were married. I had others while we were apart, but I married him and he has nothing to talk about...he was married before I came into his life and had girlfriends before that. Nowadays, it's not something to be bartered for and sold...it's the womans decision on who to give it to and any guy who has a problem with not being her 'first' should stop and think if she is HIS first....HMMMM there's an interesting turn of events!! LOL!
2006-09-01 19:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Jen-Jen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not being a virgin is not the end of the world. There are many people who marry as virgins and then you find them wanting to explore. If they had explored before marriage they would have been able to settle with one mate...... I was not a virgin, and I am glad because I experience some things I would never want to again. And now I can experience new and better things for the FIRST time with my hubby
2006-09-01 19:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i havent been around the block!! but im am not a virgin thou & neither is my fiance' all thou he has been wit quite a big number of people...
he experimented alot when he was younger...& broke a few hearts....&he feels bad for that...
me n him [[now about to get married!!!]] both set bak n think...& some times we wish we were both still virgins....
but i kno its for the best that we werent...
my first i loved him....i still love him even thou im not wit him....i kno he loved me
[[he still writes me & tells me so till this day!!!]]
but i kno if my fiance' would have been a virgin now...then i kno mine & his relationship wouldnt be workin out...he would want to go off & experiement....
soo in that fact no i dont regret it....
but i do hate the fact that people try to judge us girls if we arent virgins....
i mean if we are considered a prude
but if we arent we are considered a hoe/slut
soo by society's judgements in this day n age....we women cant win either way....
2006-09-02 00:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It would if my husband was a virgin but he's been around the block more than I have so NO, I don't worry about that at all!
2006-09-01 18:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by buzzbait0u812 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good, what is the problem there?
You didn't even know the guy when you lost your virginity...
Unless...he was virgin and expected you to be also!
2006-09-01 19:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um, a woman should be worth more then her virginity. honestly if a woman is admonished for not being a virgin when she gets married, then thats still just reduicng her to nothing more then a sex object. I regret losing my virginity to the guy i lost it to, but i don't regret having sex. sex is just a natural human desire/instinct
2006-09-01 18:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Mary S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I did, but we both were not virgins when we ment. I thought he would be bother him, but it didnt. So were cool!
2006-09-01 21:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by Foxy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt more confident and in control, which helped me the first time I slept with him (and in a lot of other ways too.)
2014-09-06 16:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by Jennie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls are not the property of boys, if boys can loose his before marriage then girls should not worry about it...
2006-09-01 23:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it will not bother me coz it does not matter. what matters is the one love you gained with each others company.
2006-09-01 18:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by alexis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋