Guys...r u disgusted by stretchmarks? not the reddish purple ones but the more faded white ones...i havent had a baby and the most ive ever weighed is 110 lbs but when i was 14 i had a huge growth spurt and i went from flat chested to a C cup overnight...i have stretchmarks on my boobs and butt and on the sides of my hips but none on my stomach. other than that ive got a great body and i get asked out by guys all the time...but i get all self-conscious when a guy wants to go further and i basically have a panic attack if a guy wants to have sex with the lights on (guys...why does that turn u on so much?? i guess thats a whole another question......)
2006-09-01 18:35:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Betty, You sound like a really lovely girl. For a moment let's think of it from the guys' perspective. You've gone out some times. He's really into you, and thinks that your super hot. Now you want to get physical. By the time both of you get your clothes off, most of the guys' blood has left his brain, and he can't see straight anyway! But, seriously I can't imagine at that moment of impending passion with you, a beautiful girl. He's going to stop what he's doing and examine your body looking for tiny white lines. He wants the light on so he can see all of you. This gorgeous girl Betty he's going to have sex with. Your eyes,lips, arms, legs, all the curves and places, well you know. So don't concentrate on the insignificant things, he won't. He's going to look at the whole of you. So don't be self conscious, it almost sounds as though your punishing yourself for this. You should feel wonderful about what you've been given. And you know, you probably have a nice personality too. That's another thing guys' also find a turn-on. Smile. Sincerely, Charley
2006-09-01 19:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by charley128 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are far more visually oriented than women, and as such, prefer to be with a girl with the lights on, so they can see her as they caress her.
Personally, I'm not repulsed or disgusted by stretchmarks. If I like a girl, I like a girl, regardless of if she has stretch marks or not.
2006-09-02 01:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by d h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay if i get to see you naked im not gonna say man whats with those. and the light on first time because yeah i need to see that everything is okay down there before i stick a body part near it. nothing against the girl but i just need to see that skin is clear and no discharge or anything.
2006-09-02 01:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great and the first to answer is a non-English speaking terrorist!
I wouldn't worry about the marks! If they care about you this shouldn't even be an issue!
2006-09-02 01:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no stretch marks aren't disgusting most guys don't notice them especially if your naked. they will be looking at other places and yes we like the lights on because we like the female anatomy to the fullest extent, especially if they have a good figure. like my better half
2006-09-02 01:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by dalmation60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl...you should be proud of urself for having a great bod...
and if a guy cant get that...too bad..tough luck...
there is nothing disgusting about stretch marks...so chill and if it could help there r ointments that you can put which makes them go away
gud luck..
2006-09-02 01:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by scintillating_baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goes with the territory dont even notice them unless they are on the stomach like the lights on so i can see what is making me feel so good
2006-09-02 01:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by sean b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not and my wife has had 2 kids and still looks good
2006-09-02 01:39:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it nothing to worry about, it what is in side that counts.
there are just one part of you. if anyone doesnt like them , then they dont like you.
wouldnt put me off ;)
2006-09-02 01:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the crap are stretchmarks anyways?
2006-09-02 01:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by jonniboy91 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋