I'm casually dating this guy and we get along great. We talk multiple times a day and hang out a decent amount...the only problem is that he is moving way to slow physically for me. I am not the type of girl to make moves or to come out and say that things are moving too slow, so how do I get things to move along faster without making the moves or straight out asking him?
2006-09-01 18:34:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's been two months and I'm 23 years old. I'm not saying I'm looking to make it to home base right away, but I'm definitely looking to get past first.
2006-09-01 18:40:38 · update #1
You may have to make some moves yourself for him to get it. You can also try to be subtle, but men usually need more before they catch on. Hinting may get you more frustrated than anything, but it's worth a try.
2006-09-01 18:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by feathereafter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you are talking about and what you are looking for. If you just want a hit & run then be straightforward and get it over with. If you like him and you "get along great", think this could mean something then what's the rush? You say that you usually move faster... how's that worked for ya so far? Ya know, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing again and again but expecting a different result. If you've never waited before then try it. Getting to know someone contributes to a bigger turn on than the sex act itself.
2006-09-01 18:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not the type to make moves, and he's not the type either, then you're going to have to talk about it. Maybe it's time to have a "DTR" (Define the Relationship Talk). Maybe he doesn't WANT it to become physical. You can be nice about it.. just start the conversation by saying something like "I really enjoy spending time with you..." One thing leads to another.. pretty soon you could be even *gasp* holding hands!
2006-09-01 18:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The days when women were passive are over. Make a move for his penis when the mood strikes you.
Women should try to get what they want.
2006-09-01 18:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jane N Hottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to come out and say what you want if you just say it first it will be a turn on for him and second he will do what you want for sure
2006-09-01 18:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tom M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his last breakup was because he was moving to fast. Or you could tell him that maybe he should move a little faster.
2006-09-01 18:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by mmoore329 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
subtle hints and "accidental" contact that is somewhat intimate. Also, look at him like you want him. These simple, almost innocent moves would make me attack...
2006-09-01 18:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the big rush?
2006-09-01 18:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak up or lose it.
2006-09-01 18:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by wishuponstarson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u will speak openly and we do
2006-09-01 18:43:15 · answer #10 · answered by ravkrish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋