Why reassure someone aaaaallll day that you would be coming by tonight. You ask them "are you coming for sure", and they say "yes of course, I have been looking forward to seeing you all week." THEN, at the very hour they are supposed to come, they call and cancel! Oh, but get this, not only do they want to call and cancel, they also give absolutely no excuse as to why they are canceling, and THEN, has the nerve to want to stay on the phone and talk to you because they "miss you." WTF? Oh, but you don't want to appear like the b*tchy girlfriend, so you reassure them "oh, that's okay, I understand," when you're really seething inside. Whatever happened to being considerate? What happened to thinking that oh, it's Friday night and if I don't stop by, this person might want to make other plans with friends, so I need to call her and give her ample notice that I am not coming? :-(
2006-09-01 18:10:24 · 6 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha. You just described my last three boyfriends. People who cancel like this are f*ckers. Seriously. They should all be thrown off a tall building.
Hope tomorrow is a better day for ya!
2006-09-01 18:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happened to making other plans or at least faking it? Whatever happened to you? What this person has done is just DISRESPECTFUL and certainly lacking in character. Now you have gone and rewarded him/her by giving the satisfaction of knowing that you are emotionally affected, disappointed and now... alone. WTF, is right! Waiting around so long just gives someone such a fat head that they think they could never do anything to lose you. Remember? You have better things to do with your life!
2006-09-02 01:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by - 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMGSH! im feeling the same way right now! i havent seen my boyfriend in like 2 months since hes in the navy..and today he was supposed to pick me up from skool to take me to lunch..well he didnt text me..i had to text him to see whats up..and he told me he didnt have a car..and im wtf? you told me you would borrow your best friends car. and then when i get home..he calls me up to ask if he could spend the night at my house..and my dad dissaproved about that...and i asked him if he was comming over to spend some quality time with me....and he said probably..well 5 hours went by...no text, no call, no boyfriend at my house. ugh. im soo pissed at him right now.
2006-09-02 01:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by AdioSurfChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the type who wouldn't wait around....Its probably to late for you to make other plans.....
2006-09-02 01:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make other plans forget about them
2006-09-02 14:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by lost in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the loser!
2006-09-02 01:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋